Away for a while and feel like complaining........  

rm_JUSTsex4me 36F
157 posts
6/17/2005 5:19 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Away for a while and feel like complaining........


I havent posted in a while. My son started preschool so I've been spending time with him when he gets home since he's gone most of the day.
So, I get on here and take a look through the magazine. Everyone on here complains about something. I know....I'm complaining about it myself One guy complains about women who label themselves as "ample" and says that upon meeting them they are much more than ample. Well, here is my question: if you seriously have a problem with the size of a person and have specific qualifications that must be met then WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU MEET SOMEONE WITHOUT GETTING A PIC OF THEM FIRST?? That just doesnt make sense to me. Of course, a woman posted that men on this site lie as much as the women. Yes, we know how it goes. This is an online sex site....people lie. For what reason I have no idea but thats how it goes sometimes, stop complaining about it.

Another man asked an odd question. I'm not going to quote him because I wont get it exactly the same but it was something like this: Should we discuss our personal (sex) lives with our doctors in detail? Such as if we have anal sex, enjoy spankings, etc... Some of the people who answered really thought that was a ridiculous question. Depending on the way you read it I guess it could be but I thought it was a valid question to ask. I've talked to my doctor in detail about my sex life lately because I have been fortunate enough to find a partner willing to explore many different things with me. Of course, neither of us are doctors so I want to make sure that some of the things are safe. Examples??? I thought you'd never ask LOL!!

I've seriously wanted to try anal sex and could never get comfortable enough to go all the way....it always hurt. Well, I looked on here and saw quite a few people who suggested using certain products to temporarily number the area to relieve the pain and discomfort. So I talked with my doctor who told me NEVER EVER....for the simple fact that you might not know if something is really wrong if you cant feel it. made sense to me. she then went on to tell me the obvious....use protection and start out with small things up there first (fingers). I also like certain acts of deprivation...namely lack of oxygen. of course, she was totally against that but said if I must do it, not to let it go on for long. There were other things too, but you get the picture.

What do you all think....would you talk to your doctor about things like that??

Thats about it for now but I'm sure I'll be back with more later on.......

up4anything530 34M
2 posts
9/24/2005 11:38 pm

Asking your doctor about things is a very good (and responsible) thing to do. As a bisexual male, I understand why some people are hesitant. Every time i see my doctor, I get a lecture on the danger of AIDS. I know this, and I don't need it. Plus, it can be a little embarassing to question your doctor about some your deepest desires. I'm curious about golden showers, but have never been able to ask my doctor about health concerns involved in it.


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