How you made your first meeting on AFF?  

rm_JEvilAngel 37F
228 posts
5/30/2006 9:22 am

Last Read:
10/10/2006 12:54 pm

How you made your first meeting on AFF?


Well, AdultFriendFinder or the other online sites....
You are a member of those site to meet someone.
Maybe, just an online fun.
Some of them are for real.

For this time, I wonder what makes you to decide ... "Hey, let's meet with this guy/girl in person!"?

Reason should be various, like just for one night stand, maybe for sex friends, maybe for real romantic relationships....

But again, most of the time, what is the reason to decide to meet??

The one you are going to see could be criminals....

Or you could be in the problems.....

I know I am being little too negative here today.

Just thought it can be kinda scary.

Is there any rules you have to meet with someone in person??

AdultFriendFinderとか、他のサイトなんでも…。
出会いが欲しいからメンバーになると思うんですけど。

「この人と実際会ってみよう!」って決める理由って何ですか??

一晩限りとか、セフレ、色々あると思うんですけど、
会おう!って決め手は何でしょう。

会う相手がもしかしたら犯罪者だったり…なんて事もありえると思うんですよね★

他のトラブルに巻き込まれるかもしれないし。

ネガティブになってますけど、ちょっと怖いなぁ〜。
なんて思ったりして。

みなさんは会うに当たって何かルールとかありますか??

captcockard 43M

5/30/2006 10:22 am

Just meet in a public place and get to know the person and take things from there.After all how many People meet on a tonight out and are under the influence of alcohol at that time surely that is more dangerous.I love to meet new people but only in public first time and not at night.


TXBITCH2006 49F

5/30/2006 10:30 am

It can be scary. That's why nobody is allowed to come to my home. We must meet in a public place and only if I feel very comfortable with you. If the guy isn't willing to chat with you a couple of times to make sure you feel comfortable, then he isn't worth it and is most definitely out for himself. Unfortunately, you just can't take chances these days.


1charlieusa 48M  

5/31/2006 1:23 am

I write about some of my experiences in my blogs. But I've learned that very few people are like their internet personality. I've meet women who has a great internet personality and sucked in real life. And I've meet women who has a boring internet personality, and were great to meet in person.... you never know But one rule I always follow. If I don't trust the woman, I won't meet her. And if I don't feel she trusts me, then I won't meet her. There has to be trust from the both of us, or it ain't going to happen. Without trust, we have nothing.......


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

5/31/2006 6:10 am

captcockard >>>

thank you for your comment!
I guess you are right.
Meet them in Public. Also, meeting with stranger at night out could be more dangerous! I never actually thought about that! (Yeah, I think I need to think about it more carefully!)

Thanks again!


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

5/31/2006 6:14 am

BICURINTX2006 >>>

Thanks for your comment!!
Feeling comfortable with him/her should be quite important!
And of course, meeting at public places....

Those comments you made helps me a lot! Thanks!!!


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

5/31/2006 6:16 am

1charlieusa>>>

Thank you for your comments!!
And sure I will check your blogs soon when I got time!
I have not have much experience, meeting with people from Online.
So, I actually didn't know that there are some difference between their personality online or offline.

Guess TRUST is quite important, too.

Again, thank you for your comment!!


Argent_JPN 54M
498 posts
5/31/2006 7:39 am

JEvilAngel,
It came to meet after it spoke with e-mail and photographs were exchanged.

And "Do not make love first, have a cup of coffee first" might be a good method on the site like AdultFriendFinder.

上のやつ、エイゴになってるかどうか怪しいですなー。
「安全デェト」を嫌がるお相手とはあまりいい関係になれないような気がします。会ってみて互いに興味を惹かれるようなら、安全デェト以降は自然の流れに任せればよろしいかと^^

Argent_JPN...


rm_lovesurfer23 42M
5 posts
5/31/2006 9:30 am

Hello!
yes is scary and is not just scary for women meeting a man; is also the opposite, a great advice is to meet in broad day or evening time, better if you call or the other party does, just to feel that energy on their voice, and hey if everything sounds OK, I guess a good meeting is at hand.
yes trust is necesary, wish you the best luck!
never the less always let somebody that cares about you and knows you that you are meeting with someone new! and have them call you or you call them in the middle of the meeting just to play it safe!
once again great luck!
and be safe always! better safe than sorry!!! LOL.


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

5/31/2006 10:40 am

lovesurfer23 ツ„ツ„

thank you for your comment.
Well, you've got new idea for me here!
Tell someone about meeting with new people.
And make a phone call... hmm.... imteresting.

Again, I think that's very good idea to make sure my safty!


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

5/31/2006 9:42 pm

Argent_JPN >>

Thanks for your comment and sorry about my delay.

タイムラグ発生したみたいですっ!
今朝7時頃確認した時はまだメッセージ表示されてなかったんですよぉ。笑

求めるものが何かにもよるとは思いますけど、
やっぱ、最初は安全に!っていうの鉄則みたいですねっw

何か、超経験不足なガキの日記みたいになってしまった…。<ちょっと恥ずかしいです★


Argent_JPN 54M
498 posts
6/1/2006 6:57 am

JEvilAngel,
The delay is not your responsibility because of "Hobit of the Internet"

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rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/3/2006 7:08 am

Argent>>

ははっw
確かに。 何か押しでどうにか〜ってそれだけで
切羽詰ってる感がヒシヒシ感じられますよね…。
そんなダメ男さんに引っかからないように気をつけないとっ!! 笑


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/3/2006 7:15 am

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rm_mincer1969 47M
77 posts
6/3/2006 7:35 am

おじゃましまーす♪

色々な人と会う機会が多いのですが、経験則で言えば一番最初は昼間に周りに人の多い喫茶店で面接(?)が無難でしょ。万が一のことを考えると逃げやすいですしね。


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/3/2006 11:09 am

mincer1969 >>

いらっしゃいませ★
書き込みありがとうございますっ!!

みなさん、やっぱり同じご意見なんですね。

男性でも同じような事を気にして、女性に会うのかちょっと気にもなりますw


rm_Herbie_Hind 43M

6/4/2006 5:03 am

Hi Angel ... I say meet in a park on a warm rainy day ... let him ease you down to the cool wet grass and then lock ur lips toether and roll around till your wet bodies are intangled. Then take him to your home for a warm shower, make him give you a bath ... with his tongue. (Let me know if I can be of assitance and I'll fly right over)
Signed,
C


rm_mincer1969 47M
77 posts
6/4/2006 6:59 am

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rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/5/2006 7:00 am

Herbie_Hind >>

Hi, thanks for your comment!

Well, that's vert dreamy situation, I guess.
If he/she's the trustful one those situation will be a very turn on!

Thanks again.


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/5/2006 7:04 am

mincer1969 >>

面白い体験をお持ちのようで…w

待ち受けてた相手がそれじゃぁ…。
車に乗ってしまったら逃げようにもないですしねっ★ 笑

ご愁傷様でした…。 

ごめんなさい、ある意味悲惨な体験なのに、笑っちゃいました♪


gije_zaral 54M
1 post
6/10/2006 4:42 am

はじめまして&こんばんは。
メールのやり取りを重ねて、同じ感性の持ち主だなぁと感じたら会います。
笑いのツボが同じだったりしたら、Goodですね。
他のかたも書かれていますが、最初に会うのは人が多い所でなければ危険でしょうね。
ところで良い出会いはありましたか?


rm_JEvilAngel 37F

6/10/2006 8:15 am

gije_zaral>>

はじめまして、そしてこんばんわ☆
書き込みありがとうございますっw

そうですね、笑いのツボとかも合うと更に良いでしょうねぇ〜♪

世界色々な国の方からコメントやメールを頂いていますが、
良いなぁ〜と思えているのはまだ数人ですかね?? 笑
色んな出会いがあって面白いんですけどっw

結構露骨に一回限りを求めてる方も多いようで…。
それはそれでありだと思いますけど、なんだかなぁ〜?
なんて思ってます★


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146 posts
10/1/2006 9:37 am

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10/8/2006 9:48 am

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