The statistics of meeting for sex  

rm_JAMSF 54M
0 posts
3/10/2006 12:16 am

Last Read:
3/10/2006 9:08 am

The statistics of meeting for sex


Abstract:
The ratio of men to women on this site is somewhere between 15:1 and 72:1. That is really good if you're a sexually active woman. It's not likely that you're going to be a sexually active man if you rely only on this site.

Here's the story:
I believe (perhaps as most men do) that I'm above average intellectually, physically, emotionally, and financially. Maybe I'm wrong but there's certainly no hint otherwise in my profile. And I know from the U.S. Census, that there are more women than men in my area. So you might think I could meet a woman with a similar goal on this site.

To the contrary. I've sent 50 well-written, tailored messages to a targeted audience with very little success. I'm not used to doing so poorly...at anything. What's going wrong?
Well, here's an experiment you can perform yourself that will expose the problem.

Search using the following settings:
- Find woman looking for man
- Discreet Relationship
- Married
- Straight
- 30-46 years old
- Within 50 miles of my registered location
- Average, Slim/Pete or Athletic body type
- Non-smoker
- Last visit 2 weeks or less
- Only Gold or Silver
Result = 3 women.

Now, repeat the same search but include Standard members as well:
Result = 11 women.

This establishes a measure of married women interested in an affair. How many men in a similar situation are out there to meet this demand?
Well, flip the search. Keep everything the same but search for a married man looking for a woman:
Result = 215 men.
That’s a ratio of 3:215 or 72 married men for every married woman in this category!

Flip again as above, but include Standard male members as well as the paying members:
Result = 367 men.
That’s a ratio of 11:367 or 33 men in this category for every woman!

---

You are correct to observe that my search is very specific. Maybe married women are 'different' somehow. Well, let's relax the search.

Search using the following settings:
- Find woman looking for man
- 30-46 years old
- Within 50 miles of my registered location
- Last visit 2 weeks or less
- Only Gold or Silver
This includes all women who paid for the service, visit it recently, and are at least near the age I'd be interested.

Result = 66 women.
If you include Standard Members, it becomes 336.

Flip to men looking for women:
Result = 1,650 paying for service.
Ratio is 25 men for every woman.
Including Standard members, its 5,050. Yielding a ratio of 15 men for every woman.

Clearly, 15 to 1 odds aren't very good if you're on the male side of the equation. And, in the category I'm interested (engaging in an affair with encouragement by my wife), the ratio is perhaps twice as bad.

That is the dominant reason why it's so difficult to meet a woman on this site. (Of course, it would be easier if I were single. But that's another topic.)

The obvious question that comes to mind is "where are all the women?" Are they just not interested in reaching out and experimenting?

I have a theory....

Become a member to create a blog