Being a bitch...  

rm_Iwillwait4u2 52F
1274 posts
4/1/2006 5:56 am

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Being a bitch...

ok while I know I have herpes, and I do tell potential lovers, nothing gets started til the TALK..I must not be bitchy enough, cause man I get put in my place by ex lovers, new lovers, etc. While not being hooked at the hip, I'm NOT that type of woman, who has to know your every move, I find it fasinating that I can be called girlfriend, while with you...but in the end, herpes or not, I am just a fuck buddy, for other people who have herpes. And that is not what I am about. being with someone, means being TOTALLY honest..and maybe that is my fault..I don't care of you go out with the men, I don't care if your gone a weekend hunting..or whatever..a realtionship also needs to have time away from each other. THAT doesn't give you the right to sleep with other people. And use me, to get back at lovers gone bad. While at this point in my life, I am sick and tired of being wonder I had bitch tattooed on me, cause I guess its a joke, when men tell me I wasn't bitchy enough to keep them, but while also telling me that the last realtionship they had, the women were BITCHY..and had to be hooked at the hip! What the f****! maybe I do need to take bitch lessons...but in the end, they come back and tell me, after leaving me to go back,...that they are sorry, hell...and WANT to come back to me, never realizing how good they had it.
just my bitchy blog for today!


bluegirl39 49F

4/1/2006 8:31 am

go ahead and bitch..we all need to vent now and then

rm_hippy6663 65M

4/1/2006 9:00 am

Tell Em to Fuck OFF an its OK to have BITCHS days Guys Do, An you tell them before that you herpes so they should Love You and be safe.

4204 posts
4/1/2006 9:22 am

you are definitely NOT the only one who has been used by men from this site my dear...some of these "men" are pieces of shit if you ask my opinion...dont give a damn how many people they sleep with or how many they hurt by making them "another notch on the ol belt"...I for one am looking for a long term "buddy"...but so far...all of those who said thats what they wanted too...are full of shit...sorry to be so cynical...but I tell it like I see it...and like Ive lived it...smooches u...QueenB

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!


bipolybabe 54F

4/1/2006 9:42 am

I feel for ya, baby. I wasted a lot of time meeting men and telling them after the first meeting, and before we had sex, about the herpes. And, then I didn't get laid very much.

Now, I put it in my profile so they know. Herpes just isn't a big deal.

So, I don't think it's the herpes that's hurting your heart. I empathize. I'm feeling something similar. I've had some great sex with partners I found on this site, but so far I haven't found the relationship that feeds my heart. I just wrote about it in my blog about "Why My Ex-Boyfriend?"

Get really clear about what you want, because the Universe usually sends exactly what you ask for and exactly what you think you deserve.

And, I'll send up a few prayers to the Universe on your behalf, too.


Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

HerpesDating 39F
11 posts
4/1/2006 10:12 am

It's easy to find sex.That's not a problem at all,but to find true love might take a while.
Herpes isn't such a bad thing as long as we're up front about it.So many people have it nowadays that it's become the norm,but everyone still keeps it secret.
We all need to blow off a little steam now and again.Go ahead and bitch! It'll be better tomorrow.If you get a chance come visit our group.We would all love to hat with you.

ieatpie2003 54M
27 posts
4/1/2006 10:47 am

you sound like a nice person,

whackofalltrade 53M

4/1/2006 12:54 pm

I wouldn't consider bitch lessons...some guys like nice women. Gotta remember what this site is...or at least how most guys may see it. I personally have never met a soul on here in three years but I don't really try. Sounds like you had a some bad experiences but hopefully you don't lose faith in all men.

Glad you joined Herpes Dating. Come chat sometime if you can ever catch anybody in there.

ieatpie2003 54M
27 posts
4/3/2006 7:37 am

i would love to take you out to dinner,just meet you ,as a person,send me a pic please

rm_thehavasuguy 54M
10 posts
4/13/2006 4:17 pm

Ok. Here's a Funfact®that we often lose sight of: There are PLENTY of BITCHES&ASSHOLES in the world!! Joining them moves that kind of behaviour one step closer to the NORM!!
FUCK'EM!! RELENTLESSLY be the good and decent person that you are and the rest will follow! Sure, everybody's been dumped, wronged, fucked-over, cheated on, lied to or something. We can dwell on that or observe WHO treated us in that fashion and add that type of person, Male or Female to our "Don't Even Fuck 'em For Money" list. Spend 5 minutes looking into the mirror each day and get to know THAT person; they'll ALWAYS be with you and it is THEIR respect that you must ALWAYS keep. Go out the door with that in your heart and it will shine for anyone who's looking. Glimmering in your eye will be the little "Asshole Repellant" that CUNTS&DICKHEADS recognize as "Find some other life to shit in". I read your posts and think you're a pretty neat person from what you've written. Nurture that...and ....don't get the twins frostbitten up there in the GWN. Cheers from Thehavasuguy on yeahwho by the lake.

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