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The second coming...
The second coming...
I'm at work tonight, I'm a barman at a Hotel in Bolton, so I thought I would post a few thoughts before I head off.
For the past two nights I've been pottering around the site, checking out the chat rooms, looking over the magazine and some of the other blogs trying to find my way in this crazy world. Right now I'm just testing the water, breaking myself in gently, trying to learn the ropes and taking it slow. Now when I signed up to AdultFriendFinder I was fully aware that people regularly used this site to hook up IRL for one night stands, but I had no idea how often this actually happens. I'm impressed.
I'm also terrified.
It seems like to get ahead here you really have to have the balls to step into the limelight waving a 'notice me' neon sign and being as forward and blunt as possible. On the chat rooms people just come in and say 'looking for girls to get naked on cam with' or 'any girls want to see a huge cock? <insert hotmail address>'. This is crazy. It seems like you have to have the same nerve on AdultFriendFinder to meet people as you would IRL anyway, I guess its just that rejection is a lot easier to take if its just from some random name.
On the chat rooms it just seems to be one big sausage fest and very few girls around, so as soon as an (F) appears on the screen all the guys seem to go crazy like teenage boys at a strip club. Though it isn't like its just the guys on here, I see this kinda thing on other 'rival' chatrooms where a womans presence in a room sends the guys over the edge. I'm keen to find out how the women feel about it; do they enjoy the attention, as fickle and freely dispensed as it is? Or do they get annoyed at being hounded, emailed and PMd by every guy with a hard on that night? Before I take those first few steps I'm going to do ma homework.
Last night (read: early this morning...) was also an interesting first for me. Last night I went into the exhibitionists webcam room and enjoyed watching some girl, 'SquatP4U' or something like that (sorry I cant remember), doing a strip tease in her College Grad robe and mitreboard. She came in, didn't announce herself and just started stripping, I just happened to check her cam.
Thank you I slept easy last night.
It was very bizarre for me and the whole 'wham bam thank you mam' approach even more so. It does make me wonder how this kind of thing transfers over into real life when people meet up. Is it often the same old 'wham bam tym' then leave? Is there any 'courting' before hand and an actual date? Personally I figure people probably meet up for drinks, get a little tipsy and if they like each other then they go home/to a hotel and do what they both came to do.
I feel I have delved into the rabbits hole and ended up in this strange place that I knew had always existed, but I don't quite know how everything works.
I look forward to finding out.
Fair day to you all.
10/17/2005 11:51 am
the world is black hearts are cold and there's no love thats what they told and we can't go back never be the same forever changed by the things we had seen. greeting from good old ger... and of course good charlotte|