What Are You Woman Looking For?  

rm_IMerectius 49M
16 posts
6/17/2005 3:23 am

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What Are You Woman Looking For?

I want to know, are you looking to find a relationship, or to get banged. I am soory for beeing rude, but what are you looking for. Many women post that they are looking to have fun, but they are looking for long term relations. Please post what you are really looking for.

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/17/2005 5:41 am

Your discussion tells me that for you there are only two extremes when it comes to sex, it is either getting "banged", or "long term relations".

There is something in between, called "part-time love", the relationship that can be as beautiful as love, but without expectations of commitment or "heavy-duty dating". It is time enjoyed together when you both are available, but yet, you both are free to see others. Usually it is seeing one person on a steady bases, but you are open to see others in between, if you choose too. You are together till one of you wants to move on, then you stay friends.
This does not mean one-time or business trip encounter.

rm_cele2flowers 42F
75 posts
6/17/2005 6:46 am

Personally, I'm looking for someone to go out and do things with that's also a fuck buddy. I do expect the attached string of friendship. So if you look at it that way, I do expect a long term relationship. The question, really, should be what level of commitment are they looking for?

I do include the clause that if something more develops, then so be it. But, generally, that is not what I'm looking for, at least at this point in my life.

yknotforme 46F

6/17/2005 8:00 am

Personally I believe you can never have too many friends. Some you want in a physical sense and others you would prefer to keep it platonic.

I put a profile up to find a friend or two with whom I could develop a friendship with the benefits of sex. I am looking for a friendship that is an addition to my life, not a complication. I don't want to alter my life, just improve it by having a good friend and a fantastic lover willing to explore and enjoy all of life's possibilities.

sexysnake28 39F
8 posts
6/17/2005 10:38 am

I agree with gcao1, there's something in between... I'm not looking for a relationship but I'm not looking only to get "banged"... we can spend some time together... have some fantastic nights... and be free to see others... not feeling obliged to phone or to meet... and your friendship will always remain...

young_ass_freak 31F

6/17/2005 11:34 am

I'm not looking for long term relationships, I just want a good time!

Nishka5 45F

6/17/2005 12:14 pm

Obviously, it depends on the woman. Not everyone wants the same things in life, the trick is to ask detailed questions and listen carefully to the answers. If you're still unsure, I wouldn't consider it rude to ask point blank if it's a friends with benefits thing with no emotional ties or if it's a possible lead up to a long term relationship. Honesty & bluntness can always be appreciated by most. My opinion, I may not like what someone has to say, but I'll respect them for saying it if it's the truth. Hope this helps & good luck!

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
6/17/2005 12:59 pm

being banged or a relationship? hmmmmm well I have a relationship with my husband, I also have a relationship with a friend who I am also sharing things with and spending time with him. He and I have intimate encounters but he dont bang me. We share in mutual pleasure of the mind and body. If you think a WOMAN wants to get banged then you are not getting the benefits of the person they are.

I truly believe that the best relationships are those that start by getting to know the person and sharing in all aspects of their lives, not just in and out. My guy is single but he is a man who strongly believes in the quality of the woman rather than quantity, and that is the kind of man who will get a step closer to me, every time.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

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