the lovliness of sensuality  

rm_HotSpice46 59F
903 posts
7/23/2005 12:43 pm

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the lovliness of sensuality


i had and encounter with a couple, it was very lovely and elegant...he gave a full body massage wow that in itself was totally awesome...i think we don't spent enough time on the sensual trying to get to the sexual...we need more encounters with candles, fragrance, lighting, anything that enhances the senses, and a lot of touching where the emphasis is not on orgasm but touching the other's body and getting to know what makes them respond and how....

pleaseheright 47M/45F
3 posts
7/23/2005 4:27 pm

I am all for it! My wife and I do a lot of massaging each other, and it doesn't always lead to sex, but I guess that most times it does. On my birthday last week, she gave me an excellent blow job and then a really good massage afterwards....WOW!!!What a feeling that was!!


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
7/23/2005 9:55 pm

i have even read that there is healing in touching...is why hugs are important...sometimes just making someone feel...special...without all the stress of a performance


LChorndog 66M

7/24/2005 7:54 am

I agree with what i'll call 'foreplay'..lol...I spent the better part of 2 hrs touching...licking...kissing.. ...caressing...holding...stroking a few nights ago...before even getting into anything 'sexual'...put my partner in the edges of sub -space.........a lingering feeling she had not had....so a good time was had by all...and we set no pressures on one another about a 'check list ' of things we wanted to do while we were together.
when the sexual activity did roll around it was a whole lot of fun..


thinkingman1945 63M
8 posts
7/24/2005 12:25 pm

What an inciteful commentary on sensuality....all about the preparation...the journey. Well, the destination's not bad either! I'll send another ero-story as soon as finished.
Dr. G.


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
7/24/2005 1:02 pm

been a long times since i felt sub space and wasn't rudely brought back from it by some idiotic command


LChorndog 66M

7/24/2005 4:46 pm

HotSpice...well I feel close encounters are about the sharing of emotions....not just body fluids...*g*.......and the funny thing about it all was I had my pick of holes to use and did what she enjoyed most......sucking me off......and it was a wonderful experience as she returned the favor...( so to speak)


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
7/26/2005 10:23 pm

i am glad you had a great time on CO LChorn


Digiperv 61M
10 posts
8/12/2005 1:10 pm

I do believe the lack of "sensuality" is a by-product of the times we live in. Everything we do is fast paced .. finish and move on to the next. Our lives are a serious of half-hour encounters .. from television to significant others ... activity geared to fit neatly into our ever to busy lives. No wonder we no longer have the time to stop and smell the flowers. But when we do take the time .. make the time ... we wonder how we let it all get away from us.


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
8/13/2005 10:18 pm

logical and beautiful thought Digi


LurksRacerHired 65M

8/19/2005 6:28 am

You're onto a great subject HS. Mood setting can enormously enhance the sexual experience. Admittedly, I think of you often and had this fantasy of you coming home from work, mentally spent after dealing with 25 challenging children in your classromm. You called me at lunch time to fill me in on how your day was going. You even asked me if it was a full moon or what. I decided at that point to leave early from work and thought the whole way home how to relieve your stress. I devised a plan starting by hiding my car around the corner. You enter the door on the floor is a note. it says, "Unbutton your blouse, take it off and then get the wine from the dry bar." You walk to get the wine out and on the bottle is another note, Take off your skirt and get 2 of our favorite wine glasses. You go to the hutch and get out two wine glasses where you discover yet another note in one of the glases that reads, "Take off your heels, but leave on your thigh highs and walk over to the cd player and hit the play button. What begins to play is Tim McGraw and Faith Hill, "Lets Make Love". You notice a note on the entertainment center that says, "Now come into the bedroom and lie down." You do and are greeted with several soft candles lit and filling the air with sweet lavender. You couldn't help notice the silk bed sheets pulled back and you knew exactly what to do. No note was necessary from this point on. Hearing you enter the bed, I emerge from the master bath door with nothing but a towel wrapped around my waist after just showering and holding a bowl containing a mound of cappuchio bon bons. We smile at each other and as I walk to the bed observing your naked form, looking sexy as usual and totally relaxed I say, "HP, So tell me about your day in more detail?"...after which, you gave me that lovely evil grin of yours while wagging your finger slowly inviting me into bed with you.

Since this response is about mood setting, there is no need to go on further


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
8/22/2005 9:06 pm

mmmmmmmmmmm that is better than calgon hardhat...then would we fuck for hours...i hope so


LurksRacerHired 65M

8/23/2005 6:57 am

HS...by all means my dear. That I can give you {{{wink wink}}} and gladly. Got to work off those bon bons at least


rm_HotSpice46 59F
358 posts
8/26/2005 9:29 pm

my favorite exercise hardhat..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


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