What's This? Hmmm..  

rm_HotGurl69210 30F
33 posts
11/30/2005 11:03 am

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What's This? Hmmm..

What is the key to knowing a man or woman for that matter? I mean what is it that really lets you know all about that person even the stuff they dont want you to know?

seantaylor_69 47M
2 posts
11/30/2005 11:28 am

That's a great question. I've wondered the same thing...Knowing someone well is a real exercise, one that doesn't happen without highs and lows, peaks and valleys; are you with me?


im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
11/30/2005 11:33 am

You grab them by the short and curlies and threatening them with some twisting action until they open up with the truth. There are other ways but thats the quick method.

SibylBatchAxile 43M
384 posts
11/30/2005 12:18 pm


liv_learn_laugh 40M
4 posts
12/1/2005 10:32 am

I think DariusCole and seantaylor_69 almost have it right. just to add on to it. I think Time and a LOT of openness are key too. if you can't talk to the person you can never know them. that is a hard thing for most people to do. even people that are pretty open usaully keep alot to themselves, which is where the trust issue comes in. the more you trust someone he more you are willing to talk to some one. understanding is another key. like seantaylor_69 said there are high's and low's. I feel that learning the lows are more important than learning the high's. any one can like someone for their good qualities, but the real question should be what don't you like about the person but still put up with. I don't think I have a complete anwser but this should at least get you thinking.

4 posts
12/6/2005 8:00 am

Honey, I don't think you can ever completely know a person for 2 reasons....#1 I truly believe that people do not know themselves, I am still searching my sole and can't seem to figure it out 100%. I know what I like and dislike but the true me is a mystery. #2 You never know what a person is capable of doing until they actually do it. It's so easy to get blind sided by others, even people that are close to your heart...Moms, Dads, Boyfriends...etc. Anyway, my guard is always up. I enjoy life. Getting to know someone is a timely process...Although, it would be nice if it could happen overnight. It's a huge investment with good times and bad, ups and down!

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