That first step...  

rm_HavNFun1323 44M/40F
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12/24/2005 3:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

That first step...

Isn't that like one of the hardest things it seems? Everyones talked it over, everyone is anxious, maybe even a little nervous. Your feeling that excited, arousing anxiety...that curiosity driven twinge of lust/desire to explore something different. To allow the one you love to experience something different and hopefully wonderful.
But...getting that first step is something under no ones control. When/if it happens, it will or won't happen. You can't make it happen. For anyone going through the first time...that first step in trying a lifestyle both simple and complicated...No matter your opinions or original desires there will be one universal question you and your partner will ask. Whether you ask out loud or to yourself when alone or whether you ask it on a subconscious level...
Was it worth it? For some it's a yes, for some it's a no. What makes the difference between them? In my opinion, the honesty, communication, and above all, the true love past any visceral physical binding that you have with your partner are the determining factors.

1976AmericanPie 37M/41F
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2/15/2006 6:30 am

Taking the first step to acknowlege that you are attracted to someone of the same or different gender is overall pretty easy. It is the next few steps that are more difficult. Deciding that you want to explore each other on a more intimate level and where to begin are just the begining of a discovery that can lead to great things or could lead to a direct end. Being open and honest is important.
What I think is normal and delicious, could very well be over the top for someone else. None the less we all use our imaginations to get us off. Sharing those imaginations is crutial to our success as becoming and maintaining our intimate friends in a relationship.

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