Wondering why?  

12 posts
4/17/2006 2:49 am

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5/27/2006 1:38 am

Wondering why?

I read some blogs of what seems to be a nice lady and i began writing her but I decided to blog it instead.

By the way i'm sorry things have been so rough for you.

I know what she means though why can't people just pull there head out, LOL. In a way it makes me feel better, like i'm not the only one banging my head against the wall.

I haven't had any luck whatsoever on this site or any other dating site for that matter not that i've used a lot just this one and 2 more I think eharmony and yahoo never really signed up for yahoo though. I am talking to a few ladies right now no meets yet though. But I continue to plug away believing sooner or later i'll find someone worth a shit or at least if nothing else have a good one night stand or two. Though i'm actually looking for more than just fucking. But, at this point I'll take what i can get. ( Now is that what one of our problems is, we just get to a point and say fuck it?)

I am a great guy who's got his head on straight and his shit together. I try not to lie as much as possible but lets be honest I do from time to time heck who doesn't. I even have my employees lie for me which is not good but sometimes people just don't want to hear the truth. So if they won't listen I just tell them what they want to hear. I'm not perfect by any means nor do I belong on GQ Mag maybe PC Mag though LOL. My business is in the Computer and Internet world and it takes a lot of my time that is one of the reasons my dating life is on here. The other reasons are many I would imagine but here are 2 more: 1. I really don't like bar hoping much, 2. well my life revolves around computers.

I just don't understand why relationships have to be so hard sometimes. I have learned about myself over the years both good and bad. I think I come on to strong and scare women away at times not that I just start feeling them up just the way I speak. I am very upfront and honest and I don't have a problem saying what i think and feel and i think they are intimidated by me. I am very confident and I do great in business. I guess I use my business skills with women. The one thing I don't understand is why women go for these loosers, come on these guys walk up like the Fonz and say shit like hey or hey babe then feed them full of lies and bulshit and chicks eat it up, why? Is it because they have no self esteem or are they just stupid?

I often hear women say they want intelligent conversation, I wonder. I have a weekly meeting with local business men just so I can have intelligent conversation. I like talking about important things and i make it a point to not care about hollywood stars; rock, country, , and hiphop artists; and come on reality tv is a crock it might be fun to watch but knowing the likes and dislikes of the contestants is a bit much. As for me I guess I must be to self centered or something cause my life and the people near and dear to me are way more important than anything or anyone else. I just need a sweet little lady who will fill the spot of the most important person in the world.

I don't know what i've said but I know I meant it!

A Great Guy!!

PassionKisses4Me 44F

4/17/2006 3:47 am

Good Luck with your search sweetie...I know it can be frustrating but hang in there...I know I am...kisses



rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
4/17/2006 5:57 am

Good luck and be patient. Love comes when you least expect it

Purry {=}


rm_cassandraj 54F
35 posts
4/17/2006 6:35 am

I am with you. I come here and I try to meet people. Sometimes I will meet a guy and he is only after one thing. I would rather get to know people well first, before I jump in to bed with them.
I went in to the chat room the other day and this guy came on and he just said "I will meet you and we will get naked .... etc." and I said "I don't even know you" but he just continued to talk to me in this really arrogant manner and I am sure that he thought it was a turn on. It just turned me off.
I have been to night clubs and bars and you either find lecherous guys (and girls I suppose) who just want to pick you up and take you home and get sex and then that's it. I find it really shallow that people just want sex. I really really really want a relationship with a man, where we can spend time together, talk about anything, current affairs, the weather, our jobs, and then we can go out for tea or dine at home, watch a movie or a video, laugh and have fun and enjoy each other's company. And then hey if the relationship is good then of course it will hopefully lead in to the bedroom (after a while, not on the first date) and to a long and meaningful relationship.
Good luck in your hunt. Sned me an email anytime you want to chat and have an intelligent conversation.
I teach people how to use computers and I also pull computers apart and put them back together (and they still work) so we could hopefully chat about something we have in common. Cassie

bluegirl39 50F

4/17/2006 7:29 am

In the same shoes...can't seem to meet someone worth a hoot...I think it doesn't help where I live and I too don't do the bar thing..So alone I sit..lol..I'm just kinda accepting the fact I'll remain single. In regards to losers..yep some women are into that for me..not..I'de rather stay sane...

EroticaXTC 50F

4/17/2006 8:29 am

we know what you mean hon...most of us end up blogging here because we went through the whole dating-site routine...and found it lacking.
I did meet 2 different people from here...and they both just disappeared without a word, lol...that seems to be a common occurrence. So we turn to the blogs, where we meet people, make friends, and have some fun...and if we meet others along the way that we hit it off with, whether we're searching or not, it makes it that much better!
Good luck, and don't get too discouraged!

willudomeharder 39F
85 posts
4/17/2006 8:59 am

Trust me...I know exactly how you feel. I suppose a good woman can seems just as elusive as a good man sometimes. Keep you head up. You seem like a very good person (and the bod ain't bad either). Or, if you're like me...just make a five year plan. If I'm not married by the time I'm 32, I'm moving to NYC. There it's not so stigmatizing to be single & over 30. *smooches*

rm_sexydebagger 57F
2 posts
4/17/2006 9:10 am

you want be alone for long you will find the right person.she's out there

bikerbabe57701 49F

4/17/2006 9:43 am

welcome to my world...and as always..your a distance away...

saddletrampsk 54F

4/17/2006 11:06 am

Great post and good luck..nice of you to lay it on the line like that..

jst4fun915 34F

4/17/2006 11:11 am

My husband deals with the same problems here, where all the girls are either fakes, liars, teases, or just nasty. My issue, however, is sorting through all the idiots, to find the decent, compatible guy. Don't worry, if you don't push it, it'll happen on it's own.

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