You"re Not My TYPE TOO  

rm_Guam_MILF 40F
58 posts
7/26/2006 3:41 pm

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You"re Not My TYPE TOO

In a previous blog entry, I made the bold statement that stereotyping people as an excuse not to consider them as a possible mate or date was just wrong. I went so far as to claim women often were afraid the person they were talking to were indeed the person they secretly desire and thus were afraid to reveal their souls. The end result being the missed opportunity to find out whether or not there was a spark or even a click with a stranger, even one seemly not appealing.

I learned from my mistakes how wrong TYPING people can be. Many men I have meet and formed first opinions proved me totally wrong. They became objects of many nights tryst behind closed eyes. It was unfair that I expected perfection in a mortal man so soon after meeting him. Those men proved how gentle and swab they really were when the veil of fear of rejection was lifted.

When I wrote my blog [blog Guam_Milf] You"re Not MY TYPE , I proclaimed there was no such thing as personality TYPES in "summation". Now I'm not one to openly admit when I am wrong as much as pointing out when other people are wrong. A small character fault of mine. So bear with me as I come to realization two people even published a book on personality TYPES.

WHAT'S MY TYPE by Kathleen V. Hurley and Theodore E. Dobson dives into dissecting personality traits and habits. Fortunately for us, the book separates our tendencies into nine (9) categories. Each category describing how people deal with environmental challenges. Here they are for your convenience of, once again, limiting yourself in our world of opportunity:

(1) Achiever to Pathfinder
This person possesses great WISDOM

(2) Helper to Partner
This person is all so UNDERSTANDING

(3) Succeeder to Motivator
This person is filled with LOVE

(4) Individualist to Builder
This person is all so POWERFUL

(5) Observer to Explorer
This person absorbs and mirrors BEAUTY

(6) Guardian to Stabilizer
This person possesses ENDURANCE

(7) Dreamer to Illuminator
This person is filled with MAJESTY

( Comforters to Philanthropist
This person is a solid FOUNDATION

(9) Preservationist to Universalist
This person is filled with PRESENCE

Now I can see how someone would be confused by summarily TYPING people into these categories. The list even resembles a condense version of a Horoscope. However, my interruption of Hurley and Dobson's break down of personality traits was not to divide the world into 9 different groups of people but to help people identify their common character traits. Must I point out that we all have each trait listed in our personality.

Now we are back to my original point of view. TYPING people is WRONG. While the book points out that each of us have predominant factors that place us into the listed categories, it only points out OUR characteristics. And we can change our characteristics as time progresses.

Next time that goofy guy approaches you and offers his right arm to talk to you, take a step back and think twice. Is he really asking to be placed in a padded cell or is he overwhelmed by your presents. Believe me, it feels really good when I see the male animal bumbling about as it bask in my glory. (that was so egotistic, but that's the feeling.) Now I didnt say jump into a dark colored van missing a license plate did I! I am simply saying that let time reveal what clicks and sparks may be there. Not every man makes it on my wonderful list, but each has the opportunity.


4awhile3 56M
6 posts
7/27/2006 12:53 am

bumble, stumble, trip, CRASH, BAM, TWAAAANG, sigh, uh hi, here is my right arm, would like to take it? am i doing this right? excuse my while i put on my shades and hold my head up high while i walk with you........neat book, thanks for sharing, mmmmmmmmm, what else would you like to share?


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
7/28/2006 1:42 pm

so...
can i have that opportunity? please?...


sexedcravednemph 35M/30F
260 posts
7/31/2006 3:40 pm

Nicely Written.


hellothere19672 49M
1 post
9/8/2006 2:18 am

good luck in finding some one cuz I now you will . I now how it is there I use to stay on guam . p.s your so called mate is some crazy !!!!! <<!


rm_guamcock 42M
6 posts
9/12/2006 9:06 pm

Hi Guam-MILF,
Great posts. The thing I like about your writings is, you could feel the truth. You're not just buffing around here and there looking for fast sex. You actually bring meaning - lot's of new meaning - to the purpose of us being here.
Take care and keep it real.

A married person like you who is feeling something is missing in his sex life...


rm_jdeyoung641 58M
1 post
12/30/2006 11:57 pm

Interesting... Hmmmmm
I am thinking of starting a new AdultFriendFinder.com site and calling it AdultFriendFinder.com ... Yes. Women are a commodity on this site, unfortunately for us men. Women still outnunber us guys worldwide, so it is amazing to me that men are not the real commodity. Of course, my site would allow Women to have all access rights and I would give them freebees for joining the site. My site would have a ratio of 10 Women for each lucky guy. ha ha
See, now who's the dreamer.
take care all
Jeffrey


sixftcharmed 44M  
608 posts
4/4/2007 9:24 pm

Very nice and informative....is this book on island?

Looking for fun or trouble can sometimes end up being the same thing.....


Lthick934 39M

4/12/2008 12:52 am

great intelligent post, sexy and smart, awesome u r...


romanmyth 35M/35F
455 posts
5/10/2008 5:57 pm

I would have to agree with you. I have met a few people who after about 6 months my initial opinion changed drastically and now after a year I am even fantasizing about them. The smooth talkers, that I always seem to give the wow, he seems very nice and polite stickers to, seem to end up as the rude jerks! So I am not very good at first impressions. I now have gotten into a system, if they seem nice I think well they will probably turn out to be jerks (but I always give them the chance to prove me wrong) and that guy who can't seem to put an intelligent sentence together around me, I now assume he is just a really nice guy the feels uncomfortable at first. So I guess it is always time will tell. Just if I didn't have to keep getting older during that wait time, that would be wonderful! LOL


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