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Two girls, one roof
Two girls, one roof
Ok, My girl said today that it was hard to have two girls under one roof. (It's not my roof by the way, it's hers) She (who is a saint btw) has taken an entire family, single mother and two kids, into her already cramped abode and has been putting up with stuff that I can't even begin to dicuss here. So why am I talking about it...?
Ever read "A Room of One's Own" by Virginia Woolf? I did but it was a long time ago and in another country... But My point is this; give each person his/her own life and hold them accountable for it. Have your own room by gum, your space to be and own yourself, and I (Dom that I am) reserve the right to send you there when you are wanting to shift accountability to someone else.
If you want to believe you are capable of having a poly relationship, then build that space ace, because you are going to need it! Why?
Ok...newsflash, to have any successful relationship (see prior post for definition) you have to be accountable to yourself! no...seriously if you can look at yourself in the mirror without laughing and say "I want my partner to f**k that person!" then you might be poly.
I see so many people who are "poly" because they want to have the freedom to f**k a bunch of people, but heaven forfend that they get turned down because the partner du jour is/has/will be f**king someone else.
Get over it. My stuff is Mine, I'll use it as I see fit. And I use it better than you can imagine...but I digress. If you want My stuff, then you'd better own your stuff, 'cause you sure aren't going to own Mine. My girl owns her stuff, and because she does I own her stuff. If she stopped owning her stuff, I couldn't own her stuff.
Ponder that, oh you poly people.
4/8/2006 12:33 pm
Good Read, 009! Having been "Poly" My entire life I can tell You are on the right track. To "Poly" or not to "Poly" is something that folks do not take the necessary time out to think about. The Responsibility alone for the Dominant is huge. The Responsibility of the submissive/slave is as equally huge. Without the complete understaning of A/all combined, it will be a nightmare. |
As far as the sexual aspects, that doesn't always come into play in My "Poly" life. But if it did; I reserve the right to make that choice and make no mistake about it; without the "Complete Understanding" of all, all hell can and I have seen it break loose.
Your growth over the past years that I have known You is Tremendous. I do know the difference and would like to commend You. I am sure "Your girls" are just happy to be there!
The word "Devotion" comes to mind here.
For all Time,
Madam of the Manor
After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB
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4/12/2006 6:26 pm
After reading this blog many mnay times, id just like to add,,,THIS girl is more than happy being there! Yes there can be struggles, yes i grow with Him...but i agree Lady Hunter...devotion is the word. Devoted i am, completely.|
with much respect