Why do women like bad boys so much?  

rm_Gammagod 42M
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1/8/2006 7:47 pm

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Why do women like bad boys so much?


Can someone explain to me why women like the bad boys so much. I have people talk to me about their relationships because of the position I am in. In all of the situations with thier men, they were bad boys. And the thing that really gets me, is that they don't want to leave them! Now, we have all seen this on tv like Ophra, Maury, Montelle, whoever. They talk about how they beat them,or mistreat them, how they talk to them, whatever. But yet, they don't want to leave the guy. I have this person who I work with, she is always talking about how bad her husband treats her, talks to her, treats their kids, and the things he does to her. Now, I asked her why she hasn't left him yet. And you all know what the answer was........ But I love him!!! Come on. Get real. Is it really worth living like that because you love someone. Hey, I got a divorce because I was unhappy in my marriage. At the time I still loved my wife, but it was enough. Life is too short for stupid shit like that! Then I have heard from other people that he can be so sweet and that there is no one like hime. Hello, have you dated every man on the world??? SO how the hell do you know if there are not other men better than him??? I will admit, I did buy a book that explains how to handle women when you go out. It makes alot of sense and I have used it a few times. The book only pointed out that women like to be treated badly and by men who are not nice. The author even pointed it out in the beginning of his book. Thats what he based it on.

So here I am, still trying to figure out why this is. I would hope that there is a women out there who wants to be with a nice guy, and not be treated like shit all of the time. Hopefully I will find this women. If anyone can help me with this one, please try.

Thanks

fantasia_shares 47M/43F
4164 posts
1/17/2006 9:12 pm

LOL...it's not that we don't like nice guys...it's that we like guys...that are sensible enough to act like a man around us and not a driveling idiot

Personally, I like the smart, funny, slightly nerdy, but still sexy kind of guys who...LIKE ME...and are GOOD TO ME...without drooling all over me and not having a life. Does that make sense? And honestly, I don't understand women who will go out with men who are jerks, either. And then marry them. And have children with them. And they are assholes in general. I don't get it. My hubby isn't perfect...but if he is being a jerk, usually it is related to some misunderstanding and it's not how he behaves in general. I just wouldn't stand for it. You are right. Life is just too short. R-E-S-P-E-C-T just like Kelly Clarkson belted it out during American Idol. That is the way to get a GOOD woman. Respect yourself and respect her too. Appreciate a woman who has brains and interests.

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rm_Gammagod 42M

1/17/2006 10:07 pm

Fantasia, its great to see that I am not the only one who feels this way. And you are right, you get more with respect. Thanks for commenting .

Peace


rm_Gammagod 42M

1/18/2006 4:00 pm

ReticentDevil, I know exactly what you mean. I have this female who works with me, and her husband put a shotgun in her face one day. Being her supervisor, I had to go help her when she called me. God knows that I almost crapped my pants when I saw the shotgun. I thought it was for me. Thank god he gave me the shotgun before he did something stupid. He had to move out for a few days, but back he went. She accepted him with loving arms again. They are always fighting and she is always talking to me about thier problems. I have suggested to her about leaving, but she always says "But I love him too much!" The typical crap. But hey, its her life, not mine. Just my time wasted. Now, I really don't listen to her, just send her to a counselor. Its thier problem now. Thanks for the story.


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