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The Beast Within
The Beast Within
This phrase is often used to describe a man's sexual drive.
`The Beast within' tells of how strong this drive is in us men.
It raises it's `ugly' head literally when your testorone builds up. The longer you dun release it, the stronger it grows. The more discomfort you feel as the days go by.
The closest I can think of is like a man who is on High Tide. But that is a crude description of an experience far more urgent and far more powerful than women realise.
However before I carry on, I must state quite clearly that there is no excuse for a man to use his `enraged' manhood indisriminately.
There is such a thing as self-control. If not, this word would not exist. And the world would be an anarchy of sexual depravity. As it is, the world is tottering on the brink of such a situation cos a lot of us men and lately women lose control of ourselves.
`Self above all else' is our present motto.
Anyway back to the topic, the ugly `Beast' raises it's head and it seeks to find release. The normal and healthy way is to get a woman to be your wife. Hopefully she is understanding and the two of you hits it off. Then there will be many pleasureable moments of release. The woman in this context indeed tames the Beast within her man. The man find fulfillment and satisfaction as he and his wife finds ways to enhance this pleasure between them ( excluding all others of course.) They are not just lovers but friends. Life becomes a journey to discovery.
The other issue well and truly documented is the increasing number of single straight men like me. There is no one and there is no girlfriend. You have not found someone you really like.
How on earth do you tame the Beast within ?
Jacking off oneself is the safest way. Though it brings guilt initially, you come to accept it as a way of life.
There are those who are not happy `jacking off' as it is a lonely experience. So they think that getting a woman to do it for them is something diffrent.
And indeed it is. Yet somehow it is not satisfactory still. The emotional needs are not fulfilled as there is no connection with the other half. So some men actually make love to strange women week in week out.
Like the lost beast he is, he goes around. There is no solace in the act. And they think quietly `I am more beast than a man!'
I suppose that is why men curse the women after the sexual act of this sort and he calls them `Sluts!' `You slut. Here's the money!'
Damn sad. This is a situation self created.
Of course he is a beast cos he just does it with whoever he fancies with abandon, not realising that it is a `cop out' for his life. A `Hari Kiri' of his sexual being.
So this `Beast within' a man fulfills it's role of pro-creation and union with his wife. If our minds are clear, then we will be more careful as to how we can tame the Beast.
I think we will be happier this way, then allowing the Beast to express it's swollen rage whenever and wherever it wants. It dictates us and not we it.
Easy to say ? Indeed.
But what must be said is said,
So decide we must and choose.
And I too regularly seek
To tame the Beast within.
6/13/2006 5:16 am
Prey as we are to the beast within, all we can do is be aware, and to learn to manage and cope. That is why I always have great admiration for men who can think with their brain rather than between their legs.|
6/13/2006 6:20 am
I just wish my beast within would really come out and I would stop being so damn shy |