Man for All Seasons?  

rm_Elysia2005 43F
512 posts
7/19/2005 9:51 pm

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Man for All Seasons?

Quite the opposite, actually... See, when I first took the A F F plunge... I mean actually meeting people, not just posting my profile to see what would happen... I never intended to have any "regulars." Never REALLY meant to see anyone more than once, unless they were phenomenal. Yet here I am with more new "friends" than I care to count, some of whom comprise a small group of regulars.

There are the out-of-towners who call when they'll be here on business, and each of them is different in the tone and nature of our time together; the thing, of course, that they have in common is that I only have the chance to be with them on very limited occasions.

Then there are friend/lovers, and I could just as soon lay there on that motel-room bed talking as fucking. Guys with great personalities, real intelligence, guys I would like even if they weren't so good in bed.

There are guys where it's all about sex, all about the physical act, and it's great, but we completely avoid anything that resembles conversation. And sometimes that's exactly what I need.

There are guys I know would love to spend the whole night together if they could, but circumstances prevent it.

There are others with whom I do spend the whole night, and I treasure these... the men in whose arms I feel so safe, and cared for.

To make a long story short ("too late") I've managed to find guys to fill just about every need I have. At least the ones I will allow to be filled at this stage in my life. Which is not to say I'm not interested in finding more. Find your niche, and fit yourself in there.

edgeism50 32M

7/19/2005 10:32 pm

do you have yourself a 21 year old guy??

crankyourwagon 45M

7/19/2005 10:44 pm

Friends are good to have!

Mccartney2003 38M
281 posts
7/19/2005 10:49 pm

Sends a wink to to my friend in Houston

yaloca 30M
4 posts
7/19/2005 11:20 pm

how u doin, j-town ny 18 m

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
7/20/2005 12:50 am

Good for you ! Im glad thrue this site you have found every sexual desire of the people that is met ! Im the person who would stay the night and hold you/her, I tried haveing sex and haveing one leave immeadiatly after, but it wasnt my style and as she was driving home, i called her on her cell phone to please turn around and come back, she did (thank goodness)-when she came back i had a nice soothing shower just in progress, i took the time and washed her body from head to toe-and we went another round in bed, yet holding her, wrapping my arms around her and having her butt pressed against my semi limp crotch always gives me a smile of pleasure.


Idunno135 33M

7/20/2005 1:00 am

Find my niche. Yeah... sounds about right.

I wonder if I would ever compare to any of these guys...

rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
7/20/2005 5:16 am

Let's see if I can address these all and still get to work on time...

Edge, no 21 year olds among my "regulars," though there's a 22 year old who may or may not realize he's auditioning for a space...

Crank, I wholeheartedly agree...

yaloca, nice to meet you...

AZ, I can do the walk-away thing, rather easily sometimes, but there's just something about staying the night, even if that one night is still all we ever have...

Idunno, I try to avoid comparisons. Even categorization is misleading; there are men I know who don't fit any of these categories and yet are still what I'd consider "regulars," others who fit more than one at a time. Just give me time, and we can try to find your niche... From your self-description, you might start the "trainee" category, which I have to admit is a whole new kind of fun.

NewJackSwing 43M

7/20/2005 1:00 pm

Elysia2005: You know what they say right? there's someone for everyone out there!

I recently had my first AdultFriendFinder encounter and it was probablly the best fun I had had in a long while. Yes the sex was fantastic but what I enjoyed more so afterwards was just laying next to her as we cooled off (my AC flying that day because it was so freaking hot outside!!) and looking into her eyes and just saying "hey!" and smiling at her, brushing her hair out of her face as we laid on my bed .. not saying anything .. and to be totally honest, even if we just laid naked next to each other and didn't do anything except lay and talk and look into each others eyes I would be happy!


I wonder what that would be like with you!

rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
7/20/2005 4:43 pm

Only one way to find out...

Idunno135 33M

7/20/2005 11:35 pm

>>you might start the "trainee" category
Right. Yup yup.

>>Just give me time, and we can try to find your niche...
Sure. No problem.

NewJackSwing 43M

7/21/2005 12:06 am

Only one way to find out...

Jay sez: You have a good point there hun!

*hops on a plane to Houston to ride you Cowgirl .. err .. RIDE 'EM COWGIRL!!!!!! *

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