Dilemma  

rm_Elysia2005 43F
512 posts
5/10/2005 9:43 pm

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Dilemma


ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!! I need some serious, honest advice here...

I have a few guidelines I try to stay within for my little adventures, and one of them is to avoid young guys... Mid-20s works, but I try not to go younger than about 24 or 25. There's a reason for that; I have a nephew whose diapers I used to change, who turned 18 this year, and the idea of having sex with someone that close to his age, kinda creeps me out.

Something else that's not exactly a hard-and-fast rule, but something I really haven't done in years, is a virgin. Not even sure why, it's just something I tend to avoid. Maybe because that's an awful lot of pressure on me, to perform up to their expectations? Or maybe it's related to the age thing, since there aren't a whole lot of people who are still virgins in their mid-20s, and those that are, aren't likely to cross paths with a gal like me.

So my dilemma... approached by someone who I'd normally turn down on both counts... but he seems kinda sweet... and apparently I'm at least considering it, since I'm asking y'all about it here... What do you think? Pros/cons of the age thing? The virgin thing? If I go ahead and give in, will I regret it or be angry with myself later? Will it creep me out while it's happening? I'd especially like to hear from any women out there who've been someone's "first" after they've had some experience.

missy97330 47F

5/10/2005 10:20 pm

I devirginized a young lad a few months back. He was 23. I don't think he minds being deflowered by a "milf" but it was over very quickly. The relationship lasted about a month and a half.

He was a natural. If he had not told me he was a virgin I would not have known. He was very good indeed. His previous relationship had been "everything but intercourse" so that might explain it.

He will always have an interesting story to tell. His "first" was a thrity something former stay at home mom. Hahahaha!


Lapkin4u 42F

5/11/2005 5:43 am

I have never been with a virgin that I know of and dont ever want to be either....Im not into teaching a man how to do everything...it bad enough to have to teach them to eat pussy and where the g-spot is. So for me the answer would be no...as far as age goes I dont mind doin a young guy as long as Im attracted to him and he has some prior experience.


thunder_styck 40M
39 posts
5/11/2005 6:16 am

You naughty, naughty girl! Come here and get spanked by me! LOL
Do women get a thrill devirginizing (not to mention devouring) younger boys?


JohnerH 35M

5/14/2005 4:24 am

Right..... I felt compeled to write something in here because at the end of the day I am within the age range mentioned.

From my personal experience, I've found that most of the time I'm the one teaching stuff to women (young and old for that matter).

Maybe it's just the way my luck broke out I dunno, irrelevante to this anyway. What I do seem to find is that, age and experience do not go hand in hand. Same thing applies to age and brain power I supose.

Just because a guy/girl is in his/her early 20's doesn't mean their a vegetable in bed. The whole ideia of putting a label on a guy/girl is non-sense, you don't really know what you get until it reveals itself to you.

One thing I will mention and again this is due to my own personal experience....... I tend do find the kiss one receives is a clear indication on how the person is in the bedroom.

And to close it out, I tend to think that if the person is right (in the personality department) but has no experience, well, you have the perfect oportunity not only to show that person what it's all about but to mold him/her to your tasting, so to speak *coff*...

Conclusion? All good all around....


rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
5/15/2005 9:42 pm

*giggles* J, you should know already that you're an exception to the age rule. In fact, to a lot of rules. And of course, you are more than welcome to come ease me through the whole age issue...


CassiusFire 41M
6 posts
5/30/2005 9:23 pm

I wanted to stay out of this but damn these blogs.

John's right you can't really tell until you take that person to bed.
I was a virgin and my first was younger than me. She had been with a couple of guys but I ended up teaching her. She often told me she wished I had been her first.
I was later with a older quote unquote experienced woman who bragged she could teach me things I never new. That was the main reason I said what the hell but the same thing happened.
All I wanted was to meet a woman who could rock my world for once.

A lot of women say that they want a man that knows what he's doing but the same women don't want to teach a man. Most men are bad in bed because alot of women don't want to teach. So alot of women end up having bad sex. Teach if you can teach we all benefit.


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