"Fuck" vs. "Fuckbuddy"  

rm_Elysia2005 43F
512 posts
8/17/2005 9:35 pm

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"Fuck" vs. "Fuckbuddy"

I've had a lot of interesting experiences with A F F and have made some observations. The one that comes to mind tonight, is that there's a subtle difference between a fuck and a fuckbuddy. See, a fuck is someone that you fuck. And that's it. And it may only be once, or it may be more often. A fuckbuddy, however, is two things... the fuck part of it, and the buddy part.

See, I met a new guy tonight, or rather, met him in person for the first time, though we've talked a time or two before. And (as these A F F things are wont to do) it progressed quickly. So I really didn't know until afterward, if he was going to be a fuck or a fuckbuddy.

Definite fuckbuddy.

What makes a fuckbuddy? Well... basically, we can carry on a conversation, and it doesn't have to be totally centered around sex (though it often is). Either before sex or after, we can lay there naked - with me miraculously not feeling self-conscious about my body - and just chat about whatever crosses our minds. Granted, if we don't really have the time to do that, it's not necessary. But if we do... I have to admit I prefer fuckbuddies over just fucks any day of the week.

jimmy_j_76 40M
94 posts
8/18/2005 6:56 am

hi goddess, so your defanition of a "fuck" would be a wam bam thank you mam type of then, get thoses often? and i know you said you just talk about what's on your mind but what do you usually talk about? i haven't been either so am looking for topics that can help, and no i am not writting them on index cards to take with me, just checking how people do it

wanakissuallover 57M
411 posts
8/20/2005 6:20 am

Just had to stop by and say "Howdy"
From some of your blogs i know you aren't originally from Texas, but it's nice to see someone (even though we don't know each other) from Houston. From Jan. '67' (last half of 1st grade) till Sept. '76' (start of my Jr. year) i lived in Deer Park, and spent the 27yrs. in East Texas (Corrigan, Nacogdoches, Tyler, Corrigan again, and finally in Livingston) before moving up here to the Rocky Mtns of Utah to be closer to most of my immediate family (youngest bro. and sister still in Tex.).
Since i don't suffer too much from allergies, i never minded East Texas, and since most of the smog is in the bigger towns and cities, that didn't bother me too much either. The biggest thing i don't miss is the humidity! Ugh! Much nicer up here in the mtns.
Thanks for sharing on your blog.

rm_r_sustaita 33M

8/21/2005 12:11 am

i agree with you a fuck is nice but something more is always better. i had a fuck welll 1st and last and well was ok but what now. no friend or fuck anymore. there should be that some one you can go back for help, fuck, and a good time. well hit me up some time. maybe we can be fuckbuddies.

riddick6_7 37M
8 posts
8/21/2005 3:07 am


A FUCK: Someone that after you cum.. you look down and wish you weren't there and suddenly wish you could leave.

A FUCKBUDDY: Someone that you can actually stand enough to think about when you get horny... This means a lot and is a definite emotional connection.

helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
8/21/2005 10:43 am

Elysia... a fuckbuddy is much, much better than a fuck!! Fortunately I've not experienced the fuck only... but probably because we were talking for months before anything happened. But I guess it is because he's a nice guy too... I don't think I'm the type to let a fuck near me!


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