S&M: it's out there! MORE LEARNINGS  

rm_Ellenback 58F
903 posts
2/19/2006 8:50 am

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S&M: it's out there! MORE LEARNINGS

As I journey down this very weird road known as A F F, other sites crop up once in a while, and yes, I joined Alt.com, but ONLY for the points, I tell you!

I have a list going of questions to ask while sizing up, so to speak, a new possibility, almost always thru an IM program.

Question #1: Are you married?
Question #2: What is your first name? (could be trouble, as I may have more than one of the same name in my messenger list!)
Question #3: What do you like to do? (this covers work, sex, and hobbies...what else is there?)

Okay, I have now figured out the mightily important next one:

Question #4: Are you into inflicting or receiving pain?

It's a good one, and non-negotiable in my books, so if I forget to ask and it's a 'yes' then I could be in trouble, right? Nothing like little piranha-bite marks all over me. If you're into that, though, put it in your PROFILE, please! If I go into something knowing that about you, then my eyes are open about it, but SURPRISES are not good!

Of course, by opening the doorway to that question, there are many that follow along the same lines, all with varying levels of oohhh to ewwwwwwwww. No visuals, please! I just need to know about those propensities ahead of time!

I've also discovered another good question, although it did not impact on me personally, but only through the saving grace of bad timing, perhaps.

Question #5: Are you planning on selling tickets, or otherwise allowing others to view, any exercise we happen to get up to, without my knowledge?

If you are into 'secret filming' either with a webcam or otherwise, you ABSOLUTELY need to inform the person you are with, so that they can make that judgement call ahead of time. I DO NOT wish to be viewed without my knowledge, and have seen this very thing happen recently to another girl, who still does not know.

Just some of my learnings that I am passing on to everyone attempting to negotiate and navigate this wicked world of sexploration, and I'm sure there are more questions to add to the list. If you think of any, let me know?


expatbrit49 62M

2/19/2006 1:27 pm

lol well that very insightful, now tell me again about the cam. so If I tell you I like to broardcast my sex life then thats ok

We shoulf talk lol

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
2/19/2006 5:11 pm

If you like it, and I like, then we're both cun-scenting, right?

F*k the talk let's get to it.


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