Personal Preferences: RESUCKITATION  

rm_Ellenback 58F
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6/30/2006 5:41 am

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Personal Preferences: RESUCKITATION

I've held off writing this posting for a bit, only because I wanted to give some of my paramours an opportunity to fully expose their talents, other than just dick pics, I mean...

I have this predisposition to both giving and receiving oral - I absolutely love it, and in fact, could easily survive on a steady diet of just that! I've been with guys, girls, and couples, and while everyone mentions 'going down' as something they enjoy, sorry, they don't hold a candle to my own proclivities in this area!

There are so many styles - I've had comatose lovers who are down there for what seems like hours, but barely touch me, or at least, I can't feel them touching me ...I've been with a guy who thought that sucking the clit meant just that - Holy Hannah, I thought he was trying to pull it off (and no, it wasn't a good feeling!) and I once went to a party where an older gentleman and his wife both played (they didn't want me to reciprocate...?) and she sang his high praises of a special little trick he had: THE BUZZER! Well, when he did it on me, nahhhhhhhh, it just tickled!!! He vibrated air through his lips, kinda like you blow on a baby's belly, and it was noisy, and I was bent double laughing...! They were honestly surprised that I didn't get off on it, but once I had that visual in my head of how I'd once tickled my own kids, I couldn't get away from it.

My Ex used to go down on me, always in the '69' position, with him on top, and wow, was he ever energetic Nice and hard, well not hard, exactly, but more tactile...He used his mouth, AND his tongue, in a circular motion, focusing on my clit and the surrounding areas, and I usually got off in under 5 minutes!!! But then I'd be so sensitive that he could barely touch me there, afterwards. Geez, I miss that sometimes...In fact, I was always let down when I climaxed with him, because then I'd have to go through the hour of 'grinding' to get him off in return, when all I wanted was to have him turn over and start snoring right after! SELFISH, HUH?

I've been conversing and meeting with a few guys who 'talk the talk' about cunnilingus..."oh, yes, I love doing that..." but they just give it a nod and a lick - they're too busy trying to get to the main course, and oral is like the salad, or aperitif. To me, oral is the casserole: warming, comfort food, and filling, and my dream would be to find a guy who would be happy doing just that, lick me to climax, and then be on his merry way to work, or golf, or wherever...

Don't get me wrong - I love the feeling of having a man inside me, and it works, most of the time, for me, but it feels like settling...a compromise, and I even feel ripped off when that's all we do!

I can climax both ways, vaginally and clitorally, but I find that the clitoral orgasms are much more fulfilling to me...I mean, when I play with myself, I tend to focus on that area, and the flashes of light I see behind my eyes only occur when I'm peaking from clitoral stimulation. Vaginal climaxes make me flood the bed, but truthfully they often leave me with an empty feeling, even when I have lots of them in a row!

Actually, the best of both worlds would be to have oral at the same time as having a throbbing dick in me...LOL But, that's only possible when you're with two people, or, a contortionist, or a guy with a really 'bendy' penis!

Why is it so hard to find someone who loves giving, and receiving, oral sex? I know it can often be an uncomfortable position, and yes, your tongue gets numb, and your neck gets sore, and the little nubs of hair can irritate your sensitive cheeks.... But, every fantasy I have in my head focuses on the sensations realized when getting great oral sex. It's a combination of saliva, rotation, warmth, passion, 'circling the landing strip first' (courtesy of another blog! ) and then zeroing in and, most importantly, holding true...make me feel your actions, be a little energetic, and show that you love making me feel so good! STAY ON IT, DAMMIT...DON'T BAIL SO FAST!

I saw various toys that are designed to simulate, AND stimulate, based upon oral sex, but no, I didn't see 'THE MOUTH'...is there one?

I'll work with you on this one...really, I will! I give as good as I get, and I've said that before, and damn, to paraphrase MZHunyhole , who mentioned that she could BJ a dead guy back to life I'd be more than willing to 'RESUCKITATE' you, and no, I don't spit! Achtoo!

I mean, I wash first, I use NAIR (damn that burns!) to tidy up the unnecessaries, and I'm openly enthusiastic, audibly rewarding you for a good job during and after...should it be so hard to find someone capable of being as smitten with this act as I am???

Stop telling me that you love oral sex, if you only plan on doing a lick and spit job...or tell me, when you first start, if there's any surprises down there that would preclude you from being able to finish the program, and I'll go do something about it!

I had to wait a long time in my life to experience oral sex, and I'm not giving up on it yet!

Tell me: DO YOU LOVE GIVING, AND RECEIVING...?

IS ORAL SEX YOUR FAVOURITE THING IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE?

Or, COULD YOU GO WITHOUT IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT A BACKWARD GLANCE?

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: ARE YOU DAMN GOOD AT IT...?


APPLY WITHIN: Wages commensurate with experience, passion and devotion to the cause is paramount, applicants must be willing to work overtime when necessary, frequent breaks will be provided with refreshments supplied...!!!

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(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle



angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
6/30/2006 6:17 am

Yes! I love giving and receiving oral sex! And while I think I could live without intercourse if I absolutely had to.....I'd really miss oral sex!


MarcoPolo197676 39M
541 posts
6/30/2006 6:22 am

Some days Its all I want to do, but on the whole not really, maybe just haven't had the right experience yet.


1girlrevolution 46F

6/30/2006 10:11 am

I'm thoroughly disappointed when a guy doesn't give oral! I also like it to start with, and during the act . . . don't be afraid to keep going and change it up now and then. I will always reciprocate and I've been told I do a very nice job. I even had one guy say "oh baby, I could pay you for that" and at first I wasn't sure if I was insulted or complimented. But then . . . I figured out that he truly meant it as a compliment, I just didn't like being compared to a paid oral giver. lol

I have one friend that NEVER goes down on a woman. He just doesn't like it and won't do it. Needless to shallowly say, we're just friends now (amongst other reasons too . . . he was 10" and thick, no thanks). I can find so much more in other people.

And, I have more intense orgasms with my vibtators. I have yet to find a guy that can buzz, twirl, spin, twist, have rotating ball bearings and stim the clit all at once. Dammit, where is he?

~1girl


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
6/30/2006 1:09 pm

    Quoting angelofmercy5:
    Yes! I love giving and receiving oral sex! And while I think I could live without intercourse if I absolutely had to.....I'd really miss oral sex!
Yeah, Angel, you and me both! Is that like one of the 3 things you could take with you to a desert island...a guy that had no dick, but damn, what a mouth...? LOL

(((softboobyhugs))) and a pleasure to have you over the border (ummm, by 'have you' I don't mean...ok, yes I do...hehehe)

Elle


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
6/30/2006 1:15 pm

    Quoting MarcoPolo197676:
    Some days Its all I want to do, but on the whole not really, maybe just haven't had the right experience yet.
You sound like a lot of the guys I've been meeting, Marco..."oh yah I just love it...ummm, but not NOW.." Not sure if it's the right experience you're missing, or if it's just not in you...most guys have absolute adoration fantasies going on, whether it's for feet, or boobs, or a specific act, and maybe you're just into intercourse alone!

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
6/30/2006 1:20 pm

    Quoting 1girlrevolution:
    I'm thoroughly disappointed when a guy doesn't give oral! I also like it to start with, and during the act . . . don't be afraid to keep going and change it up now and then. I will always reciprocate and I've been told I do a very nice job. I even had one guy say "oh baby, I could pay you for that" and at first I wasn't sure if I was insulted or complimented. But then . . . I figured out that he truly meant it as a compliment, I just didn't like being compared to a paid oral giver. lol

    I have one friend that NEVER goes down on a woman. He just doesn't like it and won't do it. Needless to shallowly say, we're just friends now (amongst other reasons too . . . he was 10" and thick, no thanks). I can find so much more in other people.

    And, I have more intense orgasms with my vibtators. I have yet to find a guy that can buzz, twirl, spin, twist, have rotating ball bearings and stim the clit all at once. Dammit, where is he?

    ~1girl
1girl, I was with a guy who had NEVER had oral in his life, and yes, I believed him, because he was so cautious, didn't know what to do, and he ended up not even trying it, but yes, he sure loved the BJ!!! LOL I don't understand the hesitation though...the first time I went down on a woman, I sure as heck didn't hesitate, although my friends Jim Beam, Margarita, and Sunrise helped me...

Ummmmm...we really have to start talking toys!!! Send me a dang pic already...LOL and where I can buy it online - I don't want to waste money on silly toys that don't work, and did ya notice? Almost all of those stores are run by guys (pocket jinglers, too!) so I can't take their advice without a grain of salt (oh, btw, I can't even taste salt, hence the propensity to ummm...ok oversharing again, Elle...)

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


ArtDent99 45M

6/30/2006 10:18 pm

No one ever mentions the one fairly important form of oral sex: COMMUNICATE!

I enjoy oral; giving..receiving (what guy doesn't). But I also like to know that if my tongue-ups (arounds, ins, etc.) are have little effect! One moan for yes, two short slaps to the head for no maybe?


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/1/2006 12:00 am

LMAO, Art...love the two slaps part! Geez, gotta work that into my routine, ya think?

Sign language in its highest format...LOL

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/1/2006 10:27 am

Yeah, I kinda gathered that, MZH!!! LOL In fact, you are my 'oral heroine' - maybe a mentor??? hehehe

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


horny4770 60M
8158 posts
7/1/2006 11:11 am

    Quoting ArtDent99:
    No one ever mentions the one fairly important form of oral sex: COMMUNICATE!

    I enjoy oral; giving..receiving (what guy doesn't). But I also like to know that if my tongue-ups (arounds, ins, etc.) are have little effect! One moan for yes, two short slaps to the head for no maybe?
Never argue with logic like this!!! lol

Can't say as I've ever been slapped....for that anyway...lol...the encouragement of a few moans, groans, writhes, wiggles and "Oh yeah Baby, right there...aaahhhh!"...don't hurt a thing either!

Have a Great Weekend!

H.


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/2/2006 9:02 am

LOL Horny, meet Art, Art, meet Horny...you both have similar characteristics and thought processes, so I'm not surprised that you 'get' each other...

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


pillowtalk4Uonly 58F
292 posts
7/3/2006 10:49 am

Actually ... I Love it All as long as it's not too painful...

My most recent lover has type II diabetes, so the sensitivity in Mr. Happy is not always real good. But I can still do oral on him and have him cum in my mouth even when he is not totally hard. *Yummy!!* Then he does the G-spot trick on me with his magic fingers and everybody is happy.

~ pillowtalk ~


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/3/2006 4:36 pm

LOL pillowtalk, cheers! to making mistanmissus happy, happy! Does diabetes cause sexual problems? I'm completely in the dark about that illness, as I've never known, or been with, anyone that had it..It must do, makes sense to me. I just didn't know that a guy could cum when he's not all the way hard...Edumacate me! LOL

Thanks for stopping by!

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


goodatpoetry2 66M
12402 posts
7/3/2006 11:35 pm

I, too, could happily survive on a steady diet of oral only.
In fact, I think all kinds of foreplay is REALLY where it's at.
Sometimes, the sex act itself is almost a let-down.


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/4/2006 5:25 pm

goodatpoetry2: particularly right afterwards, when you see the mighty lance once again become a butter knife...*sigh! It's like Christmas morning, when you're hoping for that new set of Lego's, but you get Duplo, instead...ok that makes sense ONLY to me, perhaps, but you get my gist!!! LOL Umm...KKarebear probably gets it too...

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


GreyFox_in_LV 68M
167 posts
7/6/2006 2:36 pm

I love oral, although that's something of a misnomer much like Blow Job. I don't like it when she blows, but sucking now..

To me, good oral really means pamper that pussy.
Kissing, licking, fingers, sounds, two fingers working that G spot, lips, tongue mouth working the clit "Area" yes its the whole area that works. Don't have to 'focus' just on the clit to stimulate that lil girl.
It doesn't hurt to listen too, see what's working. Trust the sounds, they seldom lie.
And if you are very lucky you may get rewarded with some of Aphrodite's Ambrosia.

I can appreciate what some of you women say, as for getting a "Blow Job" most women think they do it well, NOT.

I will say, those that enjoy giving a BJ do a much better job, which is probably true of most men going down on a woman, the one's that enjoy it do it better.

Anyway, that's an old Geezers 2 cents worth


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/6/2006 6:38 pm

Thanks, Old Geezer, so if I give you a buck, you'll be down there for hours? Woohoooo....do you accept PayPal?

the one's that enjoy it do it better. True, but it helps if they've had some training by a verbally inclined woman previously...no, not there, here! That kind of thing...

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


GreyFox_in_LV 68M
167 posts
7/8/2006 4:36 am

Very True Ellenback. A little personal instruction xan go a long way. It doesn't hurt to have a woman masturbate as you watch her, see what she likes as she knows what works best for her, and any personal pointers I can pick up, I'll take em.
Besides, a little mutual masturbation is fun too.

Yes I accept paypal. But for you, we can make a deal.
Shall we Negotiate? hehehe.

BTW enjoying your blogs
THX


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/8/2006 9:58 am

Negotiations underway, tabling agenda and critical path as you read this...should be on your desk before end of next week! LOL Umm...won't tell you just WHAT will be on the desk!

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


adbacula 36M

7/9/2006 3:37 pm

@ArtDent~Although, I'm still laughing about your comment, it's true nonetheless. Have you thought about sex counseling? (Others, that is.)

Hi Elle,

Communication is important, even between the most experienced lovers. Not everyone's the same. We aren't cookie cut outs. We all have personal preferences and needs.

As a young lad, I picked up a book about lovemaking. There are many books out there full of techniques and pictures.

One more thing. It's not good advertising to go around and say, "I suck... bad."

Cheers!


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/9/2006 7:18 pm

Art would make a great counsellor, I think! LOL

Adbacula I want to know what the fine print is on that tee shirt of yours...? Don't do anything? Is that your motto? hehehe

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


adbacula 36M

7/10/2006 1:35 pm

    Quoting rm_Ellenback:
    Art would make a great counsellor, I think! LOL

    Adbacula I want to know what the fine print is on that tee shirt of yours...? Don't do anything? Is that your motto? hehehe

    (((softboobyhugs)))

    Elle
Hi Elle,

Unfortunately, it seems so.

In my blog "It's just hair! Or, is it?" I give a detailed explanation of the shirt's meaning and origin. (I'll figure out how to make links... one day.)

Please drop in anytime. Love the
(((softboobyhugs)))

Yours,
addy


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/10/2006 3:50 pm

Links are easy! See the square bracket on your keyboard...? [ then you type blog then the nickname of the person you want to link to, with a space between blog and their name! Like this: adbacula Oh, and close the bracket with the left-facing square bracket.

Same thing for a picture, but it's 'photo' that you type before their nickname: adbacula Geez, now you're famous...LOL

I read that blog of yours, didn't see what the link was to that story, so I'll need to go back and re-read it! LOL

Oh, and thanks for account perving...hehehe

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


pussylovergta 56M

7/29/2006 1:32 am

>DO YOU LOVE GIVING, AND RECEIVING...?

Most definitely so!! I am more into giving but have enjoyed receiving

>IS ORAL SEX YOUR FAVOURITE THING IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE?

With a name like mine do you need to ask?

>Or, COULD YOU GO WITHOUT IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT A BACKWARD GLANCE?

nope. definitely nope. Life would be boring.

>AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: ARE YOU DAMN GOOD AT IT...?

I like to think so -- you be the judge.

That is a challenge

I leave the ball in your court


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/30/2006 2:21 pm

    Quoting pussylovergta:
    >DO YOU LOVE GIVING, AND RECEIVING...?

    Most definitely so!! I am more into giving but have enjoyed receiving

    >IS ORAL SEX YOUR FAVOURITE THING IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE?

    With a name like mine do you need to ask?

    >Or, COULD YOU GO WITHOUT IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT A BACKWARD GLANCE?

    nope. definitely nope. Life would be boring.

    >AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: ARE YOU DAMN GOOD AT IT...?

    I like to think so -- you be the judge.

    That is a challenge

    I leave the ball in your court
<---pounds the ball back over the net to pussylovergta....I LOVE a challenge!

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


pussylovergta 56M

8/1/2006 3:58 pm

> <---pounds the ball back over the net to pussylovergta....
> I LOVE a challenge!
>
> (((softboobyhugs)))
>
> Elle

Then we will have to chat sometime about it.
Definitely sounds interesting, very interesting.



I droped you a note.

Take care,
pussylovergta


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
8/2/2006 4:26 am

Challenge, huh??? LOL Do you realize how many times I have heard that over the past 6 months, from various guys trying to get next to me? Almost each one, without exception, has said "they love it"...but they do it sporadically, it's not a part of the menu...it seems to be one of those things that they do in the early stages of a relationship, and then, like MacBeth, "struts and frets his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more."

I just looooooove a challenge...LOL

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


pussylovergta 56M

8/2/2006 6:30 am

Elle

> Challenge, huh??? LOL Do you realize how many times I have
> heard that over the past 6 months, from various guys trying
> to get next to me? Almost each one, without exception, has
> said "they love it"...but they do it sporadically, it's not
> a part of the menu...it seems to be one of those things that
> they do in the early stages of a relationship, and then,
> like MacBeth, "struts and frets his hour upon the stage and
> then is heard no more."

LoL

I can imagine on the attention aspect. It has always
been part of my lovemaking session. I am not sure if
I do it more for my lover or my own gratification.
My Ex sure loved it -- that and the back massages -- helped
her get into the mood.

Why else do you think I chose my handle? It seems
I am obsessed with it. I am more than a lick!!!

Also have loved pursuing that g-spot. Found some lovers
let go and others back off when they get close.

I also was an amateur musician (brass) and learned to
double and triple tongue. It adds to the experience.

In reference to the menu -- it is a mandatory appetizer.
Sometimes it is the main course and other times it could
be the dessert or all of the above!!! LoL

Also have spent hours on that -- have to admit the neck
is often sore the next day but have a wonderful aftertaste
most of the next day. Mmmm Mmmm good. Yummmm

> I just looooooove a challenge...LOL

Have you ever had a g-spot experience?

> (((softboobyhugs)))
>
> Elle

Take care,
pussylovergta


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