8 yrs Age Gap with an Undergrad  

469 posts
4/30/2006 11:45 am

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7/10/2006 10:25 pm

8 yrs Age Gap with an Undergrad

I'm finding myself attracted to a 20 year old undergrad girl that goes to the same university and since I'm a 28 graduate student.. I'm curious what my chances are with women that age.

What is the biggest age difference you've had with a sex partner?

Women, how old where the guys you dated when you where her age??


4/30/2006 12:09 pm

I am 36 and he is 49. We are together, as lovers now.

Knot4Everyone 40F

4/30/2006 12:11 pm

Biggest age difference in a sex partner? It was several years ago, and the age difference was 17 years. The sex was good but the age difference prevented any relationship from developing.

It depends what you're looking for with this younger gal. If it's just sex then age doesn't really matter. If you're hoping to have an actual relationship then you should think about where she's at in her life and how that compares to where you're at in yours...

Good luck!

MWWwantsmore 51F

4/30/2006 12:15 pm

Hmm I am 40 and he is 24 Yeah I know I am a cradle robber!

rm_69NERor68 47F

4/30/2006 12:18 pm


rm_CalMale4 59M
2 posts
4/30/2006 12:30 pm

hello engbucaro! i'm 48 and i've had two women in the last 10 years who were 20 years younger. they were both intense lovers, fantastic people and the two i would most definitely have married had circumstances permitted. my advice? go for it!

Djeeper1987 47M

4/30/2006 12:51 pm

for me it was 33 and she was 19. we just hit it off and become great lovers. never hurts to talk to her and see where it can go...good luck

Carpe Diem

rm_ETRURIAN69 47

4/30/2006 1:45 pm

November 2004: I was 35 and she was 21 (14 years diff)
September 2003: I was 33 and she was 49 (16 years diff)

Age is just numbers if you have sex. For a serious relation I think that could be a problem. But 8 is not that problem for me, in your case perfect!

My suggestion: go on and good luck!!

soadorable4u 64F

4/30/2006 1:46 pm

Doesn't seem like that big of an age gap to me.
If it was 10 yrs...well, that's a generation gap. after the lust wears off there's usually not much in common

rm_shaveclean2 56M/42F
691 posts
4/30/2006 1:50 pm

My partner in CRIME is 46 and I'm a young frisky 32!! The SEX is always great w/Crazy contrasts!! I say Go For It.

G The Female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


rm_sexy40islady 57F
148 posts
4/30/2006 2:02 pm

Go for it, you'll never know how it would be if you don't try. I once had an age gap of 18 years. My last friend... 10 years younger.

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

4/30/2006 2:49 pm

I am 42, he is 58 - works for us. Age is only a number. Made sure they are 18 or over

saddletrampsk 54F

4/30/2006 8:48 pm

I was 42..he was 22..the sex was incredible

SexAngel615 32F

5/1/2006 9:55 am

Age isn't anything but a number. I say go for it. You can't make an omelette until you crack the eggs.

ShyEmerald 33F
1 post
5/1/2006 11:00 pm

I agree with all of your friends. I was 19 dated two 32 year old men back to back. I learned a lot about me and about what I expected in return. As long as their is mutual respect, I don't see an issue.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
5/2/2006 3:16 am

age is but a label

now ancient is something else....

WhisperAngel069 32F

5/3/2006 3:43 pm

Age is just a number for frisky fun...relationships are different, you two might be in different places in your life and what you 2 want could be different at your ages...but sex, oh yeah a sexual could be very doable and very pleasurable...

Yummy_Gooeyness 31F

5/3/2006 10:40 pm

I say no matter what you want with this girl, age should not be a factor. You just have to find out if you're both looking for the same thing. And as far as conversation goes, age doesn't correlate with interesting conversation, because everyone's either been there or is going through it. A flake is a flake no matter or old or young they are. Hope this helps.

mia175 28F

5/13/2006 1:07 am

i have always liked older men dont know why have dated some will not post age but all that matters is that you like each other and what you can teach each other and how you make each other feel the rest is not important

Peche85 31F

5/27/2006 6:27 am

I'm 20 and my ex is 32.

rm_x7inch 54M
25 posts
7/8/2006 3:02 am

Just go for it.....

I had a great experience with a 17 year older woman when I was 33 and it lasted for some years.
My best relation until now was a 30 year old woman this spring (I'm 43 now) and damn it.. I should get married at once if she asked me....

If you don't take the opportunity, you can end up searching for somebody better than a nearly perfect girl you excluded long time ago for some silly reason.

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