Who likes to play hard to git?  

rm_Dug4Elise 37M/35F
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7/15/2005 9:14 pm

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Who likes to play hard to git?

Ok, I don’t know exactly what goes on in the heads of people who like to play games when it comes to dating. However, I’d like to share my experience with those sick people who like to play hard to get. Now I know if I rag on playing hard to get, people will assume I’m just encouraging women to b whores or something. Far from it.

But I’m asking you to consider the rewards of the game. You play hard to get, and you have fun on the ensuing power trip. If that’s yer sick fantasy, I hope it keeps you warm at night when you are alone or with some jerk (see next blog.) So you have one or a few fellas that compete for you. I guess some guys enjoy the hunt. That’s fine too, if u like being treated like a game animal. Unless I’m mistaken, I think most game animals are shot, their bloody, tangled bodies hoisted up on a crane of some sort, a couple snap shots are taken to show the buddies, if you are pretty hot I think they cut yer head off and put it on the wall above the bed, or maybe just another notch on the bedpost, and maybe some of the carcass is stuffed into the freezer.

Then you are gotten. Now what? The game’s over. No more thrill of the hunt. Now the guy gets bored with you, so he does some or all of the following: doesn’t love you, treats you like shit, and seeks fresh game. Now the woman does some or all of the following: plays more games, gets pregnant, married, or if she’s smart, which I doubt if she likes to play games, dumps his stupid ass, often in that order. Now she feels used because she has been cheated on or abused, and maybe has a child now. This is where the “Are there any good men out there?” or “all men want one thing,” or “serious relationships aren’t worth it, I’m just gonna date or sleep around, or avoid men at all cost” attitude is born and encouraged.

Now if all hope of romance and love aren’t crushed yet, often she plays even harder to get. “By golly, I’m not gonna settle. I’m not dating one more looser! I’m better than that.” So the next guy has to hunt even harder to get her this time. This time she ends up with an even bigger jackass. Thus the cycle perpetuates itself. This is what you win from playing the game: abuse, maybe children, and the feeling that all men are jerks because all the ones you have dated have been.

In the words of Dave Chappell, once you show up in a mini skirt and thong with your tits popping out of you turtleneck, while a guy may want to fuck you, that’s probably all he wants to do. However, just because you dress like a whore, that DOES NOT mean you are one. But it is confusing as fuck for us simple, stupid men. If any guys are actually reading this, heed these words please: she is not a whore; she is just in a whore’s uniform. She just gets off on attention.

Ladies, let me let you in on a secret: Nice guys don’t play games. You wonder why you can never seem to find a really sweet, caring, loving guy? It’s because drama is a big fat turn off for us. We don’t hunt. If you try to discourage us, it usually works.

Ok now I dare anyone to disagree with me!

stilllooking4me2 50F

7/16/2005 3:28 am

well said...im w/ you!

DecksSpeltTruly 67M

8/28/2005 9:02 am


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