Riddle me this  

rm_Drishya 38F
146 posts
7/2/2006 8:03 pm

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9/4/2006 11:21 pm

Riddle me this

Okay, this is directed most specifically to all of the males out there in friend finder land. I just want to know, what gives? What is the point of winking at someone and never writing to them? What is the point of meeting someone, telling them you had a fantastic time and want to take them out again, only to never call? What is the point of trading emails back and forth a few times or have a few im conversations only to not move forward and fizzle out?

I thought we were all here for virtually similar reasons. I admit it, yes, I want to find someone that will hopefully become special in my life. Why am I not on eharmony or match.com you ask? Simple. Sex is important to me and I do not want to find one more person in this world that it is not important to. I feel that sex will either make or break a relationship. Do I want to just aimlessly sleep with all the men in the greater Harrisburg area? No. Do I want to marry the next man I date? No. Do I want to find someone that I have chemistry and potential with? Absolutely. Who are you to tell me that I can't find that here? I know that it is probably going to be more difficult to find here. But, it is probably easier to find here than it is to find it at the grocery store or to find it where I work.

And before you critics post some comments, I am well aware that this did not really have an cohesion or make much sense but damn it, I needed to get this off my chest.

MajorThrobber 49M

7/2/2006 9:17 pm

Hello Drishya

I understand where you are coming from on this. Most guys want instant gratification - myself included. But it takes that special someone who can keep us comming back for more.

I live just outside Harrisburg and also find a difficult to meet someone at the local Giant or Target. Give us a few more chances.... one of us will learn sooner or later.

RocketMan_Len 52M
2325 posts
7/2/2006 9:18 pm

My opinion on winks is - I'll send a wink to someone whose profile I've found interesting. If they wink back, I'll follow up with an introductory EMail. If I don't get a wink in return, I assume that they're not interested.

rm_kneel_be4me 49M
457 posts
7/3/2006 2:06 pm

Also if the wink comes from someone that has a stanard acct they cant send you an email.

As for the rest I dont know I started out looking to this site thinking about finding someone... But as i get deeper into this I dont really care if I find my next partner here. I now dont worry about it and just blog whatever is on my mind at the time.

rm_kneel_be4me 49M
457 posts
7/4/2006 7:16 am

Its not turned off... AdultFriendFinder looses my profile info at least twice a month and when I feel like it I go back in and re fill all the info back out... The fun and joys of this site.

MajorThrobber 49M

7/22/2006 7:58 pm


Hey... most men know that all women are not barbies. At least I do. The barbies are too busy keeping their hair dyed anyway.

I have a strong mind, a quick wit, a very strong back, and a huge stronger libido.

Let me know where you go in HBG and I will be there.


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