Playing the field  

rm_DestinesHere 49F
6 posts
11/28/2005 7:23 pm

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Playing the field

Why is it that when you tell someone no strings attached that they seem to want to worm themselves into your life? I have met several men from here and they seem to want to take up all my time like I don't have a life other than when I'm with them. I'm seperated from hubby, have 3 kids and don't want my personal life in my kids life. I keep that seperate. My kids are my life, but I also need that extra attention a man can give. But I don't want to play the field and have every tom, dick, and harry walking thru my kids life. Anyone understand? Am I wrong for wanting to keep them out of things. My youngest is 5, I don't think he needs to see me with different people everytime you turn around. Not that I'm having sex with all of them, but playing the field really looks bad. Any thoughts from anyone on this? Thanks!

Jazzman541000 46M
1 post
11/28/2005 8:09 pm

No comments. Understand what you mean. I feel the same way to. Just to let you know that you are not alone. As for me, I don't have kids, but I still got a wife.

rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
11/28/2005 8:13 pm

I don't see how come you can't find guys on here that just want to have sex with you. It seems most women complain about the opposite. I guess you may have to make it more clear when someone e-mails you. Good Luck.

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11/29/2005 5:35 am

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rm_mooseman232 35M
2 posts
12/1/2005 1:47 am

well i agree with you thats why i think like you.they dont need to be all up in your life. i hate that its hard to find people that just want to have fun what ever it my be.i live in port clinton and there are alot of people like that so i have to look some where else. so im right along with you.hope u and i can find someone that we want the way we want.

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12/5/2005 7:37 pm

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