The Ideal Match  

rm_DeeperThee 46M/46F
2 posts
3/30/2006 10:25 pm
The Ideal Match

Just thought we'd throw up a more detailed list of what exactly we're looking/hoping for.

We've been together for over 12 years and from day one we've been about honesty, openess, and a desire to grow. We don't take anything on blind faith and despise hypocrisy.

We've always felt that conventional relationship models were flawed, especially when it comes to the expression of desire, physical or not. We've explored how we can keep our relationship open and learned a lot in the process. We're not "hard-core" swingers, but we have had a small amount of experience and have no qualms about being totally physical with others.

We're a busy professional couple with children. We don't have much time to give and that colors our search at this point. We aren't particularly against having purely sexual relationships with others, but that takes time away from having deeper connections and interactions. We'd rather have a bit of both- "friends with benefits".

We are an easy going, fun couple. What matters most to us is connecting with others through both meaningful and comfortable conversation. That said, we're all about facing our fears and we're not keen on those who express a desire to explore physically but can't seem to find the nerve to seriously attempt follow through with said desires. We really don't want to get into a situation where we're put through the "wishy-washy" ringer on this and we'd never do the same to you. We do our best to not pressure, but it shouldn't be taken as a sign that we'll "flake out". Trust me, sometimes it's difficult to keep the hubby in clothes.

-He & She

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