Would you attend a swinger party? yes or no? If yes what would you expect?  

rm_Deeluscious5 46F
14 posts
10/7/2005 3:03 pm

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Would you attend a swinger party? yes or no? If yes what would you expect?


I have been hearing so much about swinging these days. I found out recently that some one I know had been having them as well as attending them. I was shocked but intriged by it all. I am a pretty open and honest person so I would have to say yes I am willing to attend one but I would go the first time just to observe. Depending on what I saw I might want to ask a woman can I have her man If anyone has gone to one tell me how was it?

realmom2 58M/50F

10/7/2005 6:09 pm

Been there, done that. My husband and I went to one and it was a total bust. We were new to the lifestyle and were told that "newbies" get a lot of attention. We are both fairly attractive and thought for sure we make some "friends". There wre about 40 people there, and almost all of the other people knew each other, and it was very clickish, (did I spell that right?). Anyway, we were never approached by, nor introduced to anyone. We left after a couple of hours. I should also mention, that there were only about 3 or 4 attractive women there, but all of the men were somewhat below average. I don't know how other places are, I've heard some make "newbies" feel very welcome, but our first experience, soured us on the whole idea. If you go with someone who's been there before, it might be more enjoyable for you. Anyone, you might want to try it once, and see for yourself. Good luck.


rm_Deeluscious5 46F
6 posts
10/10/2005 9:14 am

    Quoting realmom2:
    Been there, done that. My husband and I went to one and it was a total bust. We were new to the lifestyle and were told that "newbies" get a lot of attention. We are both fairly attractive and thought for sure we make some "friends". There wre about 40 people there, and almost all of the other people knew each other, and it was very clickish, (did I spell that right?). Anyway, we were never approached by, nor introduced to anyone. We left after a couple of hours. I should also mention, that there were only about 3 or 4 attractive women there, but all of the men were somewhat below average. I don't know how other places are, I've heard some make "newbies" feel very welcome, but our first experience, soured us on the whole idea. If you go with someone who's been there before, it might be more enjoyable for you. Anyone, you might want to try it once, and see for yourself. Good luck.
Wow sorry to hear it didn't work out. It may have been just that one. I heard that they have meet and greets first so everyone can get to know each other, then the next time it is the party and everyone knows what is going to happen. Don't give up. Keep trying til you find the right party.


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