Is he feeling me or what?  

rm_Deeluscious5 46F
14 posts
8/15/2005 8:24 am

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Is he feeling me or what?

Hey all. I have been on this site for about 2 months. I have met two guys from this site. One was crazy and I quickly dismissed him. He was trying to claim me as his own from our first meeting and he knew nothing about me. I didn't understand that one.

The next guy I met is a cutie who has some issues with meeting women off of the site. Our first meeting was nice and we clicked; so much that we hung out this past weekend. I enjoyed myself. If you are wondering if we had sex yes! It was ackward because we are still in the "get to know each other stage". I am expecting it to get better with time. I am feeling the guy so far. He has good conversation and very tenative to my needs. He is shy and not as bold as I like my men so I have trouble knowing if he is feeling me or is he still trying to make sense of all of this. He also has a hang up with relationships because of his past. Knowing this makes me wonder what his intentions are. I just go with the flow and if anything comes of this I would be down. He made a statement when we were together that further added to my question.... Is he feeling me or what"; he said this is an online thing I don't expect anything from it. He also said something that made me smile later and that was "I am willing to learn". With that being said what do you think?

methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
8/15/2005 11:09 am

if was in is shoe i will feel the same way,will be shy.....,xpressin his opinion on the online happy is expressin his fear openly just give urself time and by God evrything will work out fine.

wish u guyz d very best

Doc4857 60M
17 posts
8/15/2005 11:35 am

Being willing to learn is the first step to finding out what you both like and don't like. Who knows you cou;d end up being a playful couple together. You mentiioned him not expecting anything, he may have never experienced anything more.


8/18/2005 12:36 pm

I kinda understand this guy's apprehensions because I am in a similar situtaion. You don't really know what you are getting into with a new person in your life, especially over the internet. The fact of the matter is that you both have some interest in each other that seem to be more than just sex. Even though he may not have expected anything from AdultFriendFinder, it is very possible that something great and longterm can stem from this experience. In the meantime, his actions with speak louder than his words. Just weather the storm and you will see all that this guy is about. He will show his intentions very soon, especially if you are showing yours

rm_Deeluscious5 46F
6 posts
8/19/2005 8:34 pm

Doc I agree with you he has never had anything and that is why he is not expecting nothing. He trips a lot on things and tend to ramble on and I am not sure how stable he is. He says he has two sides to him and that he wants to have two ads on line.... one for the bad guy in him and one for the good which is what I am getting. That statement came out of no where today and that had me shook but hey we shall see. He keep reinterating that he doesn't want to settle down as if I am crowding him. I think not. I am going with the flow. I have other options and look where we are..

rm_Deeluscious5 46F
6 posts
8/19/2005 8:36 pm

Method man damn that dick looks good. Thanks for your comment. Too bad you live in Nigeria!!! I am not sure anything needs to be worked out because I know how I have to deal with this guy.

rm_Deeluscious5 46F
6 posts
8/19/2005 8:37 pm

Skiny long damn your dick look good too!!! and you are only two miles from me!1 What's up!!!

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