rm_Dawnfeather 48F
1 posts
10/6/2005 8:08 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I just wonder if the days of people really giving a crap are gone forever. This is my bitchy place, so if you dont like it, excuse yourself and go away.

I thought when you are in a relationship, you are supposed to be supportive of one another. Recently I related something to my bf of 2 years, something that has really been bothering me. I was scammed by an individual and am now having to deal with the aftershock of it. Anyway, I have been really worried about it and during this time he has thought I am doing something on the side with... well I wont go there except to say he couldn't be more wrong. We'll also just say he was very negative about the whole thing, mostly pointing fingers. Excuse me if I am wrong, but I think he could be more positive, like I know you will do the right thing, instead of negatively trying to make me scared? I mean come on.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/6/2005 11:18 am

He is expressing his own insecurities.

And by scaring you, he is attempting to put himself in a position of command over either you and/or the situation. Does not necessarily make him a loser ... that is for you to decide after weighing the pros and cons. But it is a sign of immaturity and weakness. This is a moment for him to step up and needs to recognize that.



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