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marry me not...?
marry me not...?
I thought about marriage today..
I'm not thinking about getting married now, ok?!
The thought just struck me,
- Because of what reasons do we find it important to marry today?
* plain love? (okay, I know it's hard to believe..
Don't laugh at me okay? I'm just making a conversation not a statement..
Me, for an example, I would love to get married to someone that I truly love.
I would be proud to have his surname, be his wife and raise our children.
It's a romantic idea of the future, I know, but a very pleasant one wouldn't you agree..?
I didn't expect to find anything that would be comparable with love on here but I'm surprised and excited to say that I actually made a hit!
I'm not making references on marriage quality because I'm yet to find out but the value of what I have already experienced almost seems un-believable when referring to it..
I guess this all comes down to age and feeling ready to commit.
Or maybe not so much about age after all.. Let's just settle for feeling ready for commitment shall we..?
I turned 25 only last month and we can call it what ever you want.. "temporary insanity", "insight".. I don't really care..
The sum of it all still stands quite clear.
How on whole earth will I know when it's right?
When "Mr Right" comes knocking on my door...
So that I can state my name as "Mrs Right"
And more important, how should I act?
Will I be ready?
Attack and preserve or run and hide..?
Even the thought of doing the right thing makes my head spin..
I guess this means I'm not ready eh....????
OK, I'll just end this confused mapping of the future by saying;
* the world is my playground as long as I let it.. I just have to stay focused enough to use it properly *
© ByNaomi MyMirrorWithin 05'-08'
6/10/2006 11:14 pm
After you've been together for a few years, and there's no question that you want to spend your lives together, when marriage is an after thought to your commitment, then is a good time. JMHO.|
6/11/2006 3:24 am
Take it from me.. I've been married nearly 18 years and yes i do love my wife but she is not my soul mate. Regardless ill stand by her side for the rest of my days. Speculatively speaking i would almost bet 9 out of 10 marriages are to the wrong people but finding 9 out of 10 to admit the truth about that would be nearly impossible.|
I don't believe a person can find what they are looking for in another person/lover/soul mate until they find out what they want themselves and thats after they find out who they truly are. Sounds silly yes?
Marriage is a legal contract of commitment which i in a sense think is stupid. Nobody can tell the future and know 5 or 10 years from now if he or she will feel the same about one another can they? I will give you advice and thats to be patient and wait.. Enjoy life, find out what you want out of it. Another truth is that you may fall in love with a soul mate that is all you desire and 3 years later you find another so what then Always be true to yourself and true to what you want regardless of what others say is right for you.
Have a wonderful day!
6/11/2006 11:38 pm
First Liz and now you ? Is there a virus out there? All this Mr Right and marriage stuff is too scary |
6/12/2006 12:10 am
ok you asked for this |
A man and a woman were forced to share a bed together as the hotel had run out of available rooms. Just as the man was about to go to sleep, the young woman asked "I'm cold. Could you get up and fetch me another blanket?"
"You're cold?" asked the man. "How about, just for tonight, we pretend that we're married?"
"Ok, I guess so" giggled the girl naughtily
"Well fetch your own damn blanket." and he rolled over and went to sleep.
6/15/2006 4:23 am
Eeerr... Was that really my mind that was saying that?? |