What does it take to meet people on AFF?  

rm_Burningroove 47M
8 posts
5/31/2006 8:41 pm

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7/19/2006 9:28 pm

What does it take to meet people on AFF?

Ok, Gal's and Guy's.
What does it take to meet people on AdultFriendFinder? I have sent winks, emailed, IM'd even stripped down to my birthday suite on my web cam. I even have added pic's of my dick on my profile. These are things that I have never done in my life or even thought about. I am just looking for friends to chat with and even meet up with women or just chat. I consider myself a pretty good looking guy and I have a naughty side that is itching to come out. Even in the SoCal chat room it seems that if you are not part of the group you get ignored!
Can I get some help? Any ideas for me!

GossipJunkie 40F

5/31/2006 8:59 pm

Time and patience is a biggee, especially for you fellas 'cause the men are a dime a dozen whereas the women--the real women--have to sift through the numerous emails that they receive.

BTW, dick pics are a dime a dozen also. Posting a different body part--chest, arms, face w/o sunglasses--would be better.

"Dance like nobody's watching"

rm_Burningroove replies on 5/31/2006 9:26 pm:
Thanks GossipJunkie. When I get back in town I will update some better pics. I have noticed that there seems to more sausage on this site that at the OC fair!
I appricaite the comment.

NSAAddict 42F

5/31/2006 9:15 pm

Don't give up and be real. Also, becoming part of the blogging community helps so you're already on your way. Good luck!

rm_Burningroove replies on 5/31/2006 9:36 pm:
NSAAddict, Thanks!

rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
5/31/2006 9:16 pm

Definitely agree with GossipJunkie....scrap the focus on the dick pics, since women's biggest sex organ is their brain...it's the soul we're looking for, and you can't see that behind sunglasses and a baseball cap. And communicate, read profiles and comprehend them, and look thru the blogs for sympatico souls.

Good luck!


funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
5/31/2006 9:27 pm

Im with NSA on this one, women get so many emails its unreal!
Start oyur own blog, be real, expose yourself intellectually and share a little of your life. Check out the blogs, see one you like, leave a comment, that bloger will almost certainly respond to it and you may well have the beginings of a friendship.
As an aesthetically challenged male(?!!) I have many beautiful friends (inside and out) purely due to blogging, commenting and writing articles. If it works foir a ramblin, incoherent illiterate like me you should do very well!!
Check NSA blog, excellent. If your really bored check mine!
Good luck mate, there are nice people here, just finding can be a prob!

bestcouple20 34M/36F

5/31/2006 11:18 pm

we are having the same problem. except know one has even looked at our profile at all. so maybe this would be a good idea. thanks patience is the key.

rm_Burningroove replies on 6/1/2006 1:28 pm:
Thanks everybody for the helpful hints! As for you new readers please if you have any more thoughts or ideas I would love to hear them! If anyone would like to add me to there network or visa-versa I am open.

rm_rakandjak 41M/42F
2 posts
6/6/2006 12:48 pm

I've met a few people through e-mails. Sometimes I read a profile and get curious then send them an e-mail. I don't get much time on the computer, so people might think I forgot about them, but I try to send and IM or e-mail at least once a week.
Remember it's all in fun!!!

SFEM42JustLookin 52F
2 posts
6/7/2006 2:40 pm


many of the men have the right idea...
Real women are much more interested in the person, personality and passions of a man, than their manhood... The sausagefest is just Probably their best assest, and the only reason they feel the need to display it instead of get to know someone...
Stick to it, blog, chat, get to know ladies you are interested in, there are many GOOD people on this site, not as many as there are SWINGERS and Hoochies, but they are out there... Trust your Gut, not your Heart, or words... read between the lines...

Get to know many people through email and such, chatting and you will find that there are people that can just be friends, and some friends lead to more...

Instead of the pre-filled profile.. Personalize it to reflect you.. Your Joys in life, Things you enjoy doing, what you are passionate about... Make it an honest reflection of you..

Best wishes..
Be picky, and believe you are worth it...

lizzbme 46F
1 post
12/8/2006 7:11 pm

I definitely agree about the dick pics! My email is full of them even after I've specifically asked for a face pic. There are some good people on here though. Just be patient and you'll find them.

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