Comfort Zones  

rm_Bphreekee 53F
80 posts
8/8/2005 1:11 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Comfort Zones

For those of you who actually USE this site, you know how awkward first meetings can be. Even after exchanging E mails galore, pics, likes and dislikes, and everything seems to be going just fine. Better than fine even, you've really seemed to hit it off. So you decide to meet, you're excited and if you're normal at ALL a bit nervous. You make it to the appointed place and time, exchange your hellos, the normal settling in small talk, then you have nothing left to say. The conversation falls absolutely flat. It's not that they are any less attractive to you than in the pics, it's not that there isn't anything left to say. There is just something missing there. You make polite awkward conversation, finish your drink or lunch, and go your seperate ways.
Same situation, appointed time and place, settle in, the conversation never falters, it flows. There may be silences, but they're not awkward or uncomfortable. You may even find yourself talking about things that people you've known or worked with for years don't (nor will they ever) know about you. What is it that happens that creates this immediate comfort zone with some people.
I've met a lot of men on the site, and have had sex with ...well more than a few. I have, however slept with very few men. For me there is a HUGE difference, sex is great, conversation is good, but most times it's, "Hey that was great, lets do it again sometime." then you go home. SLEEPING with a man is rare. But on occasion I do find that comfort zone and can curl up next to a warm body and just drift off.

QuakePettyWipes 46M
3 posts
8/9/2005 10:45 pm

You've "met a lot of men on the site, and have had sex with ...well more than a few"? And here I thought I was the only one. Well, at least I know I'm one of the few you're actually sleeping with.

rm_Bphreekee 53F
15 posts
8/11/2005 6:33 am

The only one I'm oth having sex with AND sleeping with Geeky...

rm_Bphreekee 53F
15 posts
8/11/2005 6:35 am

Well you're the only one I'm both sleeping with AND having sex with...

darkhairedguy68 48M

10/14/2005 9:42 pm

hmmm, you have some very interesting insights. I bet you are a pretty interesting person

2003hondacerider 58M
2 posts
12/31/2005 1:45 pm

Can you see this?

rm_Bphreekee 53F
15 posts
2/3/2006 10:00 am

And it's a VERY sexy accent, especially when you call my name...

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