Hard Slogging Being A Male Blogger  

UnlitMaserSaxon 54M/52F
50 posts
8/5/2005 8:00 pm

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Hard Slogging Being A Male Blogger


Whenever I come across somebody new on this site who wants to know more about me, I point them here at my blog. I think it's a fairly accurate reflection of who I am, and what my personality is like. You'll certainly learn more from this than you will from a whole album of dick shots.

I'm also careful not to post too much 'idle chatter'. I like to keep it interesting. If some crazy thought or interesting twist occurs to me, I'll put it here to share it. But even with a fair amount of care put into the postings, I don't draw an awful lot of visitors. And few of the ones who come by leave a note. Not that I'm complaining. Far from it. I do this more for myself than for anybody else - a form of self expression.

Still, it kinda irks me to see the enormous amount of traffic women's blogs get - even the ones who don't put any effort in. I swear a woman could post about how she's come down with hideous weeping sores on her face and is experiencing agonizing bouts of explosive diarrhea and she'll get helpful offers of hot-meat injections from enough horny clowns to sink a Tamil ferry.

I know. I know. I know. There's a 20-to-1 ratio of men to women, so of course women's blogs will have higher traffic. And it's probably true that the more often you post about being horny and wanting to get laid, the more likely you are to attract sympathetic posts. After all, that's what this site is for.

So I guess I'll just shut up and keep posting - ratings be damned. I've heard some women really dig the 'frustrated artist' gambit.

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/6/2005 5:29 am

Laugh, welcome to blogland. My blog doesn't get all that much traffic, but I seem to have a steady flow of regular viewers, but that didn't happen overnight. I think might might average 8 to 10 comments per post and if I'm lucky 250 views each. Hang in there, it seems to be getting a little better with time.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


rm_MissKO777 57F

8/6/2005 7:08 am

Well in response to your request for responsive visitors, I have greatly enjoyed reading your blogs, as it has given me more insight into a male's psyche.

Thank you!


ens_fanny 45F

8/6/2005 10:49 am

Very sweet. I will have to rework my blog. Oh wait... I don't think there's anything in it! Oh well, not a lot of traffic there! Saw your post in the advice column. Bored on a Saturday and pagin thru... Just wanted to let you know... I think you are quite the stud. Very nice pic! Too bad you are way up in canuk land. Me, I'm a cheesehead. If guys are ever in the area...might be nice to meet.


RueElph 51F
5 posts
8/6/2005 2:25 pm

Hmm.. are only women visiting your blog? Only women are here in this posting, so you do seem to be catching some attention!


UnlitMaserSaxon 54M/52F
15 posts
8/7/2005 11:07 am

Very welcome comments from all of you. Thank you. It's amazing how just a little encouragement goes a long, long way. Funny, that applies to the bedroom as well.

And THAT explains why some people on this site (lonely single guys in particular) take everything short of a kick to the groin as proof that they might still have a chance. If you respond to their spam-like offers to fill your nights with hot stud action by attempting to be polite and your message doesn't actually include the phrase "FUCK OFF AND NEVER CONTACT ME/US AGAIN" - it gets interpretted as 'a little encouragement'. Although, I must admit to being impressed by their obviously high threshold for rejection.


Lover_and_Lady 42M/46F
25 posts
9/13/2005 6:50 pm

Hey, I rarely get comments on my blog... and have you SEEn that pic??? *G*... of course I mainly get attention in the chatrooms once the single men see the pic... but they neglect to notice the 'ahem' that is also in the pic 'with' me... lol...

I visit because you have some interesting things to say and I feel that I can comment to my hearts content...

btw... book????... anytime now...


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