Eyes meeting across a crowded room  

UnlitMaserSaxon 54M/52F
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7/31/2005 7:31 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Eyes meeting across a crowded room

You know that ritual. You look at her and then look away. Then you look back later and think maybe you caught her as she looks away from you. You go back and forth, maybe even lock eyes at some point and smile. It's happened to most of us in the real world, but I think I've found something similar going on here on AdultFriendFinder.

Instead of a crowded room, we have a VERY crowded web site. And instead of a meeting of the eyes, it's more of a meeting of the profiles. Every few days I have a look to see what people have been reading my profile. The ones whose short blurb or photo catch my eye, I go visit THEIR profile.

And I think I'm seeing this same, furtive glance-dance going on. I see one or two 'recurring' handles in my logs (either looking at my profile, or reading my blog or posting to the same Magazine articles I post to). I doubt it's intentional. Probably more of a case of mutual interests/fascinations. But it is definitely feeling like the "eyes-across-the-room" game.


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