So some questions for you all  

VirumLirasTaker 58M
4 posts
1/11/2006 10:16 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So some questions for you all


I have a partner and she has bi tendencies but....is afarid to act on them. Was wondering if any one had any suggestions on how to help her over come them

Xotica2004 56M/49F

1/12/2006 12:58 am

This sounds so much like how I was.
Well the best thing is not to be to pushy..she is already curious so it will happen naturaly. By pushing it to happen will only cause resentment to build up.
How I started was dressing sexy and asking my husband to take me to a topless bar. Of course I got a lap dance and the thought of her skin that close to me turned me on! Then we went to an "Adult Social Club" aka swingers club. And just observed and diddnt participate with others. WOW! It was a real eye opener for me. There were women there that wanted to touch me... but I was not ready yet.
Well to make a long story short...I did have a few expierences after that..none were great.This all took place in 2004..Since Jan 2005 we have been involved with a fem and it is wonderful. We met her on AdultFriendFinder and knew her for a year as friends. Then one night something happened and it has lasted a year. I hope you both find a female that respects the both of you. Because trust plays a keyrole. If one of you have a bad feeling about someone.. then move on. Good luck..and sorry if I rambled LOL


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