i have low self esteem  

rm_Blinded1969 38M
534 posts
8/16/2006 3:55 am

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i have low self esteem

I think most of you have this......

The feeling of wanting something but didnt get it because you are afraid of rejection(like me), afraid of what if one you dont make it? what if you cant cope? what if this and that....

"What if".. we tend to think that way, everyone of us do ryte? Vicky asked me just now about Cara situation.. and i said.. nah i didnt happen and told her i wanna forget that i even asked.. lol... if you read some of the comment i leave at others, its like im not intimidated by whats going on around me, but thats so not true... i tried most of the time to put a brave front but most of the time i will retreat in real life...

Just talked to ann abt this and she told me to gather the courage and all to do stuffs.. told her im bored with the routine life now.. and i need something to zest it up... suggestions given. take up a hobby she said.. i might... i think, if i have the time.. lol.. but isnt skateboarding a sport? LOL.... anyways...

Low self esteem, i have never and i mean never come up to a girl and ask her to go out with me and all before except for Cara... straight up! i aint lying... in the net yes alot but in person, i just dont have the courage to do just that... and most of the time...(i aint boasting here) . the ONS i had was all the girls move... Cross my heart thats the truth... Sometimes, in club when i know this girl is giving me the impression that she want me to fill her up, i still dare not go up to her and say..."hey".. thats how low my self esteem and confidence are.. so yeah.. Bat ya'll didnt know that huh? i may sound so "gungho" lol but im actually not lah....im just in my own little suicidal, depress, emotional, disturbed world... the courage i have is minimal....

rm_dimples565 67F
24436 posts
8/16/2006 4:39 am

You sound shy to me. Being shy doesn't always mean having low self-esteem. Sounds like you have some good friends. So you can't be all that bad.

Maybe reading a book on HOW TO BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM would benefit you.

I think at some time in all our lives we were all once shy. Just stay mingling with other people. Working out at the gym helps build up my self esteem. Relieves a lot of stress and you end up healthier and the changes can help make you feel better about yourself. And you sure can get alot of nice compliments. ego boosters.

Positive thinking will help too. And stay away from negative people they will bring you down.

Good luck.

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rm_rubie80 36F
245 posts
8/16/2006 5:04 am

well this is the place to build your confidence! It has done wonders for me! good luck, xxx

poison_syrup 43F
8533 posts
8/17/2006 1:38 am

The truth is, we don't always get what we want/what we ask for. Hey, but this is life. This is a realistic world! Everyone of us is unique in our own ways. You ought to have more confident in yourself. Being rejected doesn't mean its end-of-the-world. Moreover, you are not even being rejected, yet. You are just afraid of the rejection that might happen (it might not afterall). Man, you think too much. Trust me, you will know how to handle when it happen. Simple solutions. Either try again? Or move on.

Angel Of Sins

Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
8/18/2006 7:32 am

Thats right. A person with low-self esteem normally had certain aspects in life that had made one to be. Think back of why that certain thing(s) had bugged you and made you like that. Counter attack that feeling with a positive insight. Find that courage to face the truth. I am also learning.

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GirlzAllies 39G
618 posts
8/20/2006 8:17 pm

It's normal to feel that way. Afraid of being rejected. I agreed with dimples that you're actually shy and think you're more honest then most men. But for girls like us, we like our men a little shy. It puts their arrogance in check. Not like some men who easily makes a move on anything in skirts coz they let their dicks do the thinking.

So Blinded, it's normal to feel that way. I believe you'll find more courage as you get more mature.

Girlz..... just wanna have fun....

rm_Blinded1969 38M
916 posts
8/22/2006 3:06 am

Dimple... thanks for dropping by... and yeap will try and not to mix around with negative people. But its kinda hard coz me as a person am a negative kinda person..

Rubie.. thanks for dropping by too... this is the place huh? well, we shall see if this is really the place ya?

Poison.. baby, im not speaking abt just cara here... its more of a general thinking abt me... yeah everyone have their own unique ways. That i must agree...

Sassy... no luv am not thinking too much... just bored of routine. well you know what

Serene...Errrr... firght back? Geez, its too difficult, thats y im living my life the way it is... sucks huh?

Girlz....As i get more mature? and how old do you think i am babe? Maybe i should try let my dick do the thinking huh? LOL.... then i'll have more to eat that way.. LOL yes? No?

Thanks ya'll.....

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