Looking for love, not just sex pt. 2  

DutchBelayNones 57M
5 posts
4/26/2006 8:15 am

Last Read:
4/29/2006 10:39 pm

Looking for love, not just sex pt. 2

Well, I guess I've lost again. The harsh reality is that when you lose someone you love, the truth is that you may have lost them a long time ago. This "sex game" is not a toy to be played with. Hearts can be broken by mere words, assumptions, or ideas. This idea of having fun at the expense of your partners feeings is a farce. Love is too delicate to play with. And that's what too many people do. You think just because you hide the fact that while you may care for that person, he or she is not the one that make you happy doesn't make it hurt so much. Well, it does. To finally understand that someone really doesn't love you is crushing. Sex is not love nor committment, but without a sexual relationship, love and commitment walk out the door too easily. It's easy to point the finger and say who's right or wrong. The hard part is looking in the mirror and asking just how much you contributed to the pain. Guilt is easily pointed to, but hard to self accept. I wonder who's looking for love, and who's looking for just sex?

wifey3223 48F
126 posts
7/14/2006 1:46 pm

I AGREE, I'VE HAD THOSE FEELING'S TOO. i hope, i wasnt one to contirbute to ur pain. Im just being a mom, and just came out of bad marridge & many relations. Im not looking & wasnt looking ofr seriouse when we met & still aint. red

Become a member to create a blog