Actually, I'm over reacting... but it's ok...  

rm_BigGoodNub 51M
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8/12/2006 11:21 am

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8/12/2006 8:19 pm

Actually, I'm over reacting... but it's ok...

It's what I do... I've been told that I'm a strong bull... in every way.

I am stoic, hardheaded, single in purpose, and very, very strong. Having said that, I also have my viewpoint, and it's the "right" one, every time... (a fatal failing of a bull).

For those of you that I exposed to drama, I apologize. For those of you I may have hurt, you know that I didn't mean it. I'm the "bull in the china shop". You helped me figure that out.

I like the friends I've met here.. and i'm not sorry for that. Friends are important. Learning more about myself is also important.

I have learned a number of things along the way... and these are just a few...

1. I am a giver... I'm an INTJ, giver.

2. My needs are simple. I need to be touched, and feel loved.

3. I love my wife and children. I also love my friends... you know who you are.

4. I have repressed feelings of anger, fear, and self-doubt from my ex-wife leaving me for her boss, and I haven't worked through those yet.

5. I think that this is, (for the most part), a safe community, where people do actually respect one another.

SO, for all those reasons... I think I'm gonna hang around for a while... What do you think?

Oh, and Justaseeker, please forgive me.

That's my 2ยข, YMMV.


JustaSeeker 105F

8/12/2006 12:19 pm

These are issues you need to resolve on your own and I don't need to be mentioned for you to do that. You are aware that I don't do drama and I would prefer it if you would do this soul searching somewhere else. Unless you cannot be parted from the friends you have here, and this is your decision, as well. Congratulations on reuniting with your wife; I wish you nothing but happiness.


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