Lady, A BBW revealed!!!!! Answers to your questions!!  

rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1214 posts
6/6/2005 10:40 pm

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Lady, A BBW revealed!!!!! Answers to your questions!!

Ok here are the answers to the questions that I have been asked......are you ready???

sexyfitwoman Which of the couple spends the most time on HotMatch? I would have to say that I spend more time online here than my sweetie does!!! He is not as addicted to blogging as I am!!

b) How long have you been swinging? We have not been "swinging" long, only about a year or so, and I put swinging in quotes because we do not fully swing. BigD, the manly man that he is, does not want another man in our bedroom. We only invite females to play with us, not too big of a deal, BigD does better than all right for me. But ssshhhhh it is a fantasy of mine to have him and another.

playfulwithyour33 what is the most wicked thing you're done sexually? I truly do not know how to answer this question, because what do you classify as wicked? I mean, we have gotten a little kinky. But what do you classify as kinky? We have played a little with the candle wax, and didn't like it too much!! But I really don't know what to say here!!

ProFotoFreak How does a typical Day-in-the-life of Lady go? Just curious how you live your life. I know that it's different half of the week, because of BigD's job. Maybe you could tell us about both types. Now you want us here all day!! But perhaps you should read one of my earlier post where I was horny out of my mind while BigD was gone!! I believe the title is Loneliness begins in 5-4-3-2-1, then just check out one of my other sex crazed stories!!!!!

wyvernrose Do you find that playing outside of your relationship brings your focus onto the emotional state of your partner......and encourages you both to pay more attention to it not just while playing but throughout your relationship? I would say yes, but we paid alot of attention to each other before bringing another woman into our relationship! We had a lot of discussions, and ground rules in the beginning, and are still working on somethings!! But I definately believe we are mor intent on ensuring that the other is fully secure and fufilled in everyway!

renardcoi9 Did you ever had the chance to give a sex show, anywhere any how? If so, then when, where and how? We have only videotaped ourselves a couple of times, and it was in our home, and we were playing around!! HHMMMM need a digi recorder for our little outdoor adventures......got me thinking here!!!

Sweet, sweet bella Was swinging something that you and your partner have done from day 1 or did your relationship progress into this? No we did not start off swinging. We have been together almost 6 years, and I actually told him about me being bisexual about 2 years ago!! It took him a little while to accept it, but you know men...."more women" for them!!!! Nah, for real he is great!!

notsoold65 would you tell about the first time you and yourpartner swung. Well, I had met this lovely lady name Lania, (She is in my blog..."When Lady met Lania")at a friend's house and we hit it off, and I introduced her to BigD over lunch, and whew it is gettin' alittle warm!! Just check out that story!!! All the juicy details are in there, well, perhaps not all of the details, but let's say, we gave BigD a run for his money!!

berghyll69 how did u start swinging? After talking to BigD openly about my having these feeling about women, and he accepting of that, then we discussed what we wanted from each other, and what we expected. He was accepting of the fact that my being bisexual, is a part of me, not some fantasy, while me wanting 2 men is a fantasy, so thought about allowing a "friend" into our relationship. But the most important part of this whole thing is that we always remember that WE come first! If BigD has an issue with our playmate it must be handled and not swept under the rug, and the same applies to if I have a problem, or if our playmate/girlfriend has a problem!!

papyrina How old were you when you relised you were a sexual being?
How old when you when you lost your virginity and if young ,would you have prefered to wait.

And a silly one,what you cooking tomorrow for dinner?
a)I was about 10 when I truly discovered masturbation, and loved it!!! I knew that sex was good!!! I also watched my first porn flick and masturbated from it!!(It was in my older brother's room, who had gone out with some of his friends, while I played in his room!) I knew that what they were doing on that tape I wanted to do, and make a man moan the same way, I will never forget it! But back then I also wanted that person to be my "husband"!
b)I lost my virginity when I was 13, and it was not consensual, and yes I wish it hadn't happened, so yes I wish I had been older.
c)I will be preparing steak w/mushrooms and onions with wild rice, and corn on the cob!! (BigD's request!)
EE407 I'm curious what brings u closest to your partner. What do you do when you want to be together in a non-sexual kind of way (if ever that is.. lol)? We like just taking the kids to the park. I love watching him with our kids, he is a great dad!! I fall deeper in love with him with every pass of the football to the boys, or teaching them how to bait their hooks on the times they go with us fishing!! I love watching him push our daughter on the swing, or when he kisses them goodnight!! We tend to unwind together, by watching a movie, or playing a video game!!! Sometimes we sit in the dark with the music playing saying what we would do if we won the lottery, stuff like that!!

Sexy keithcancook What was the most embarassing thing that happened to you in high school? I was in Marching Band (loved those long bus rides and sneaking off after competitions)and we were practicing inside before going outside and the bandroom had those split levels and I needed to get to another instrument, well a shit load of bookbags were in my way, and I stepped off the high level and got my damn left foot caught in one of the bookbags and fell head first and pulled the ligaments in my ankle!! But you know what while I hobbled over against the wall, that damn band never stopped playing!!! After the inside practice was adjourned to outside, THEN my band director comes over to see that my ankle had swollen about 3 times normal size, and called the damn rescue squad, because it happened on school grounds!! So here I am being wheeled out of the bandroom on a freaking gurney, in front of ALOT of fellow schoolmates!! Talking about adding insult to injury!!! LOL!!!

AmberSolaire How closely do you monitor your partners blog? be honest as too how many checks a day,hour,minute...........
Who do you feel closest too on FF?
Which is yor favourite blog entry you have read and why?
I honestly go check it after he has written a post....then maybe every couple of hours to see if anyone has commented, but hey, he has just started and only has 2 posts in it!!
b) I feel closest to need4_more2 because we have talked about alot of different things!! I mean, we talk as if we have known each other for years. I love him to death!! He is a true sweetheart and a dear friend!! He knows that whenever he needs me, he can call me, and I know he would do the same for me!!!!
c) My favorite blog entry has to be keithcancook's about his grandmother!!(all of them thus far!!) Because it reminds me of my grandmother!! She was a wonderful woman, active, and independent!! Before she had her stroke she would chop her own wood, rake her yard with my help of course, and made the best biscuits I have ever tasted!!! I remember us in her flower garden once planting merrygolds and tulip bulbs, and I saw this lizard just jump on her arm!!! She just gently brushed him off and continued planting, well, I am standing a little back now, and she said to me,"You will never be anybody if you let the little things scare you away, that is no way to accomplish anything!!" I have remembered that everyday of my life!!

Sweet and funny BLONDENEEDSSEX When did you realize that you really loved D I mean love not lust? Big D read this question and said it was the first time he "gave me the dick". However, it was one night we had watched a rerun of Living Single and we were just laughing and acting crazy, when out of the blue he just kisses me. No words were said, just two goofy "kids" smiling at each other. I still say that was a magic moment!! I remember saying to myself, "Damn he's cute. HHHMMM, I really do love him." I laid my head on his lap and he played with my hair as we watched another episode.

dz502 which place in the world ud like to live in? whats ur favorite colour? I would want to live......anywhere but here!!!! I prefer the country life as to the city life, yet I do not want to live in the backwoods!!! Obviously my favorite color is purple!!!!

Ok, now that I have answered all of your questions, let me tell you something no one asked!! keithcancook asked me about my most embarrassing moment in high school, well let me tell you one of the meanest things I did!!! It was this girl in my band class, that had a shitload of mouth, now yes I was a smart kid in highschool, but I was far from naive!!! Her and I got to arguing and shit one day before the bell rang, and she pissed me off so bad that I just told her off calling her a butt ugly dog, and started barking at her!! Well, my friends laughed as we walked up the hall,with me barking at her, and for the first time she had nothing to say!! I even told her that I would bring her a dog biscuit the next day if she did a trick for us!! Well, the next day, a friend of mine brought me a little dog biscuit and dared me to put it in her chair b4 band got started, and well, what was a girl to do? I kindly put it in her chair, we were on the front row, she was on one end with the flutes and I on the other for I was an oboist!! Well while our band director was calling roll, she comes from the instrument room, and looks in her chair and holds up the dogbone, and everyone starts laughing as she runs out of class!!! Mean??? Yes, did she deserve it HELL YEAH!! Even our band director laughed when we told him what was going on!!!

Lady


need_4more2 44M

6/7/2005 3:53 am

OMG - you were a band geek! I knew that I loved you for a reason not so obvious!!! LOL I was (big WAS, haven't even thought about playing in years!) 1st Trumpet, Marching Band, Jazz Band, Pep Band, Orchestra, and Pit for Theater! Haven't told anyone in a long time and really do miss all the fun that is had in such a diverse group of weird kids!! LOL

Ok - way too many connections between us! But very cool! And, you were the prankster and mean girl?!? Ah! You are too much, Lady!

Good group of questions...but I know there is more than meets the eye to this lovely Lady...and not all of it can be answered in words!


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/7/2005 6:38 am

you were mean hun,)

Some lovely answers to some great questions


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rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
6/7/2005 6:40 am

Ok, we have a late question from cumtongue How much noise do you make when you cum?What is your biggest group? Well, I make a lot of noise, I am a squealing squirter, who has been known to yell a few obsenities!! I also receive strange stares from neighbors!!!! Now my biggest group???? Do you mean the most amount of people I have had in the bedroom at once?? If so, then it would be a total of 3 people (including myself)at once. SOOOOO LOOOOOVE IT!!!!!

Lady

PS. I knew that we had a deep connection too, need4_more2! Way too much in common!!! Too Too Weird!!! Kisses!!


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/7/2005 8:21 am

Well done Lady, you are braver than I...


bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/7/2005 4:15 pm

Lady...thanks for answering my question...actually they were all great questions..we learned a lot about you


mandingoXXX31 43M
16 posts
6/7/2005 9:28 pm

Hey I didn't get to ask a question! How is that fair?

BigD


AmberSolaire 42M

6/8/2005 3:52 pm

I walk away enriched by furthering my knowledge and knowing that if I ever cross Lady I will be barking all the way to the kennel.

Thank you


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