Fuck the Rules, I want it!!!  

rm_BigDnLady 43M/41F
1214 posts
5/30/2005 9:39 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Fuck the Rules, I want it!!!

This is just a simple question, for you people! I want to know if you are in a relationship and you want to try new things, yet your partner is only willing to do certain things with you and another person;yet you want to do something with someone else.......what would you do???? Would you go ahead and do what your body is telling you to do or would you listen to your heart? Would you lean more one way or the other if you knew this would be only a one time or casual thing? I am only asking, wondering what people think, I love my baby; so tell me would YOU do it?!!!

Think hard, and be honest!!


rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
5/30/2005 5:56 pm

I think for me it would depend what "type" of relationship i had with the man.

need_4more2 45M

5/30/2005 8:36 pm

Amen, candy! Of course, Lady - you know why i am here - the rest of you can discover if you were only bold enough to ask! Of course, With this comes a price - but if you are strong and resolute, you will be able to do what you need to if only for yourself.

And for crying out loud (yes, she is a screamer) be naughty!

poetry1mind 38F

5/30/2005 9:55 pm

I am currently in that situation.
I have been with my girl for almost 4 years and now would love to sleep with another woman. At first she was down for it but when she realized that i was serious...she started to back off.
email me at AdultFriendFinder
we need to discuss Va

lunaticbike 55M

5/31/2005 1:08 am

I say go for it yo only live once!

traceexe 43M

5/31/2005 1:29 pm

I can't stand questions like this. Your not on this site to be moralistic, or innocent. You like to fuck. You like getting messy and nasty like anyone else right? If it's a question in your mind, consider why you are asking it. Not turned on enough? Not taken care of sexually? Who wouldn't jump at the chance to get fucked-well. I most certainly would. Guilt? What's that? Must be something inside trying to fight off my next orgasm. Oh well, i'll just ignore my desire? I think not.

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/31/2005 3:10 pm

Luckily we are both up for almost anything, but we would follow our heads in this case. Neither of us have ever been cheaters, and never will be (where's the wood to knock on).

rm_437846 29F

5/31/2005 4:56 pm

Damn can i get two big dick males like that asap by thursday please i need a threesome bad. BIG DICKs

_anubis 43M
4 posts
5/31/2005 11:28 pm

Been there and done that. I dropped the woman and went for the adventure because there was no sexual adventure in our relationship. I love that girl, but I can't continue in a relationship like that if I'm not satisfied. Now, I get to choose pretty much whatever comes along. Is it worth it? Hmm. Probably. But then again, I can't speak for what a woman would choose, nor would I try. I'd like to think that our motivations are similar on some basic level.

GleesFlakyShawl 50M
1620 posts
6/1/2005 6:18 am

lady, i dont think ull get an assertive answer here, just several different opinions
i dont think its a question between body and heart
now if u think whatever ud like to do can damage ur relationship, ud have to define if u wanna run the risks

Jerosd 47M

6/1/2005 7:20 am

pic looks good...lol..btw..firm believer of everyone deciding for themself what they should and should not do...

Puurple_Passions 46M/39F
140 posts
6/1/2005 8:18 pm

well, I think I'm the only one here who would follow their heart. Feelin' kinda lame now for sure!! But... If it would hurt my R I don't think I'd do it. We're in the swinging lifestyle so this really isn't a problem for us. I've been with others and so has he, but the other has always been present and in agreeance and able to join in if they want to. But as for doing something that I know would hurt him otherwise... I couldn't

need_4more2 45M

6/2/2005 6:18 am

Nice to hear someone actually be honest on this site, puurple...don't get many straight answers in AFFland! LOL

HotNHorneyMan4U 58M
7 posts
6/2/2005 5:18 pm

My girl and I have a very open relationship, and talk about any-thing that comes to mind. We both have our needs and are allowed to take what ever action we deem necessary to address those needs weather together or on our own. It really works out well for us and does not change the way we feel about each other, in fact it brings us closer to each other. So guess you need to do what ever you think is best for you. Talk to the other person tell what you want/need, might supprise you what happens!!! Good luck!!!

ProFotoFreak 45M

6/3/2005 3:40 pm


This is a difficult question philosophically, but not for me personally. I'm not a cheater. When I was in a committed relationship my concern for my partner was always paramount. By doing so, I was afforded the same courtesy and concern. I was not going to lose a good thing for a little pussy and vice versa. No matter the temptation.

Fortunately for me now, it's not an issue! I've had my last serious relationship. I'm done. Now it's just Ms. Right Now. Even so, I think I would rather postpone whatever fantasy Ms. Now was not willing to perform rather than ruin a friendship over it.

rm_brabobmx 35M
1 post
6/9/2005 10:39 am

eai galera to afim de seexxoo

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