My Opinon on Bi Sexuality... A MUST READ!!!!  

rm_BiATLFem 38F
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2/23/2006 2:59 am

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My Opinon on Bi Sexuality... A MUST READ!!!!

This is a subject for the ages! This is a subjct that is always talked about and a subject that will be debated even long after we die and our bodies are returned to the earth. This BLOG reflects MY EXPLICT OPINION!

Definitions:
Bi Sexaul: to have and/or share sexual and/or love for both sexes, male and female.

Bi Curious: to have THOUGHTS and/or DESIRES to be with someone of the same sex, ie. female/female or male/male, but CURRENTLY involved in hetrosexual relations.

Lesbian/GAY: to have and/or share sexual and/or love for ONLY for a person of the same sex. Now, I only consider the word Lesbian to applied to female/female relationships and not for male/male. GAY is the term I use for male/male relationships although it can be used a term to describe a female/female relationship.

The definitons above are my opinions and are not taken from any definative dictonary. This BLOG is only for the subject of Bi Sexuality (FEMALE SIDE OF THE SUBJECT).

WHY Bi:
No, I was not born this way. No there wasn't any vision on the wall or in the water. I went to a strip club one day and this girl gave me ONE HELL of a dance and I found out right then and there that females turn me on sexually, so I gave it a try and I loved it! I love being sexual with a really sexy, sweet, drug and disease free female. I love the softness and passionate kissing as I am laying on top caressing and touching her body as only a female would know how. FOR ME, I am excited about the sexual aspects of being with a female, NOT THE I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE aspect of a relationship. I could not be in a relationship with a female. I love men in that sense. I could never feel the security I get from a man with a female. Again, this is ME, you do you... and I will do me. I love having a good friendship with females though. Would love to have a female that I could go to the malls with, watch TV, movies , go out to dinners, travel or whatever.

I am married! We have been together for 8 years and married for 6 of those 8 years. My hubby and I are VERY, VERY CLOSE! We do everything together, even play with females together. This is the sticking point for me! I am NOT A SOLO ACT! I am part of a couple that loves to play with females! We are not into swinging, swapping, or any weird sexual experiments!

FOR THE MEN:
Men really piss me off when they send you emails and IMs after reading your profile and they say, "After reading your profile I think that we are perfect match for each other, can we get to know each other?" This is just a sample piece of my profile on Black Planet, "NO MEN, NO COUPLES.... ONLY FEMALES! I am very sexy sexual Bi Sexual female that is married and my hubby is a wonderful man. I am ONLY looking for females to join me and my man in a threesome and friendship." NOW, how in the HELL did they read my profile and determine that we are a perfect fucking fit? The ONLY fucking things they read was, "Bi SEXUAL" Then when you respond back and say, "NO!" Then you become a BITCH because their response is, "FUCK YOU BITCH! YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A LESBIAN! HOW ARE YOU GOING TO SAY YOUR Bi SEXUAL AND DON'T WANT ANY DICK?" I promise you that this happens at least 5 times a week. Some of you men are retarded! My profile said that I am Bi Sexual and that I am married. To add insult to injury, I even said that I am ONLY looking for females to join me and my man in a threesome. DAMN! Sounds like I am getting PLENTY OF DICK! Men, PLEASE take your time and read what the FEMALES profile states! That way you don't make yourself look stupid when sending an email. Some of these emails just make me go... , and that is NOT a good thing!

There are Bi Females out there that ONLY want a female one-on-one. Then there are females that do not mind being in a threesome because they want some dick with there pussy. Then there are some females out there that do not mind having it either way. I think that it is always important to read the profile and check out what the female is looking for and JUST FUCKING RESPECT HER WISHES! Do not make YOURSELF believe that she didn't mean what she wrote. She did not sit there and take her time to write shit she did not mean... trust me!

FOR THE COUPLES:
You do the same dumb ass shit! Again, my profile on BP states, "NO MEN and NO COUPLES... JUST FEMALES!" Damn, need I say anymore? I do not mind if you are attached, we are descrete! Females that are part of couples will send me and email and say that they are down. Then later they will say, "Since I am joining you and your man... you're going to join me and mines later, right?" DAMN! Can someone answer that question for me? That shit get's on my nerves! How do you read someones profile, then agree to it, and then come back and try add some shit that has already has a "NO" answer already attached to it? Listen, if I go to a females page and they state that they ONLY play with their hubby and I know that is not what I want.. I WILL NOT SEND HER AN EMAIL! Please do the same for me! Don't come at me saying that it's only fair! Hell, I did not ask for you to send me an email. You READ my profile and sent me an email. Come on people... LET'S KEEP IT REAL!

For Bi Curious Females:
Personally, I do not mind you being Bi Curious! We all started off as curious! That's how you get to the Bi Sexual stage! I do not mind teaching and allowing you to explore your sexuality to find out if this is what you like. Just know... I AM PART OF A COUPLE! So you will be involved in a threesome! Also, be honest and real! If your down then be down... don't set up dates and get to the last minute and start making up all the excuses in the world as to why you can't come or just stand someone up. This is a reason a lot of Bi Sexual females DO NOT like dealing with Bi Curious females. So, step up or get out the way and let the real Bi Curious females through! You PUSSY BLOCKING and that is a violation of the Bi Sexual Code 43.2.1 and punishable by abandoment in the Bi Sexual world !

FOR THE Bi SEXUAL FEMALES:
Be who you are! Be proud of who and what you are. If you're Bi and descrete, be proud of it. If you're Bi and loud and you want to shout it out to the world, then do your thing. Just be proud of yourself! For the women that do it just to please your man... YOU'RE IN TROUBLE AND YOU JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET! You do it because you want to do it and you love it. If you allow your man to join in, then let it be because that is what YOU WANT, NOT WHAT HE WANTS! That is the quickest way to loose your man or start drama in your relationship!

NEVER DO A THREESOME IF:

1. You are not secure enough to watch your man fuck another female and MOST likely fuck her better than he fucks you... THEN DON'T DO THREESOMES!

2. He is not secure enough to handle watching you fuck another female and that female fucking you. Sex between two females is really passionate and he is about to see a side of you that he probably has never seen. So if you ever hear him say, "I feel like I might loose you to another female" or anything like that... THAT IS A HINT... DON'T DO IT!

3. YOU ARE DOING THIS FOR HIM! THE BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER! Consider your relationship over in the near future.

IN CONCLUSION:

It's YOUR LIFE! You only have one life so you better live it up and have fun doing all the things your want to do, but you have to ALWAYS remain true to yourself. To deny yourself your desires is to supress living life to it's fullest! Don't leave here and return your body back to the earth without having experienced all that you wish to experience because that is the clear difinition of REGRET... and no one wants regrets. Be proud of who you are and what you are. Hold your head up ladies, be confident and self-assured. I am NOT advocating Bi Sexuality, you must decide if that is WHAT YOU WANT! No one can decide that for you, but YOU!

I'm OUT!

PLEASE RESPOND AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!

Licks, Kisses, & Kisses!


mycakandeatit2 51M

3/25/2006 2:33 pm

43.2.1....lmao....never expericne a 3way...but the passion between 2 females is the turn on 4 me....keep doing yo thing...i aint mad aint you...still laffinf at pussy blocking


inmypussy24 34F

3/29/2006 9:45 am

great story i will keep this in mind


SheenaSheRaXena 30F
1 post
8/11/2006 11:55 am

This is one of the best posts I've ever seen on the site, every line of it is 100% TRUE. I was a member once before and posted as a bifem and had ALL of the same problems that you had. Partly because of all the bullshit from unbelievably rude, selfish, piggish men, (and partly because of a certain female someone I should add) I left the site for a period. I'm back now, but registered only as a lesbian and I KNOW I'm not the only bifem here registered that way. I guess I figure I can hunt down couples on my own and it's faaaaaaar less painless that way I'd guess. It's sad that I've had to go that route, but that's a comment on too large a percentage of the guys on this site.

I'm different from you in that I know I was born a bifem. Also, those purely sexual, non-romantic feelings you have for women? Those are my feelings for men. Sexually, a man can make me a crazy woman, but I only get that true passion and love from a woman. The line where you talk about not being a solo act? Gosh, that hit home with me! How many times have I had to ask a single man to leave me alone? How are you guys not ashamed of yourselves?

Anyway, like I said, all your points are GREAT, the rules are fantastic, warning people against them if they're unsure or if they're just doing it to satisfy their parters desires, is SUCH a public service. BUT, everyone should know that if you do a threesome, foursome or even moresome correctly?.......OMG!!! There is NOTHING better in this world!! How does it get any better than being satisfied by, or satisfying, both sexes at the same time?!

I've just rejoined the site, but I'm angry at myself for not browsing the blogs and finding your handle last time. I'm a student in Dallas but from Columbia SC and I've been known to find myself in ATL. So I can't tell you how much I love the tales from your posts. I have NO idea whether or not you care or whether or not I'd be invited or whether or not our schedules would ever even get together, but I'd be SO interested in discussing the possibility of getting in on the action! LOL.


rm_sexhungry355 39M/35F
1 post
8/26/2006 7:37 pm

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! From one true bi Female to another
you hit all the nails right on the head.


iwantutoday2006 37F

10/26/2006 5:23 pm

GREAT POST, YOU PUT IT ALL IN PERSPECTIVE FOR ME.


kadillacmac69 46M

11/24/2006 11:40 am

truer words have never been said. mad props to you and your crew.


rm_nickidee69 57F

4/5/2007 10:48 pm

Thanks for the post with full explanation of what the true meaning of being bisexual is all about and being proud of your sexuality. Thanks again for keeping it real. I agree 200% with the post. I am uninhibited and love my bisexuality.


girlplay669 47F

3/11/2008 3:23 pm

Awesome writing. I agree with you 100%. Loved the blog. Be Blessed.


rm_thebluenite 46M

4/13/2008 8:41 pm

Great words... well expressed.
Proud of you.. you go girl.

Kitten

kisses


ArgosKhakiHeist 45F

7/4/2008 7:57 pm

DAMN..YOU DA TRUTH!! LUVN YOUR REALNESS


Bandit0775 41F

7/13/2008 9:16 am

I don't think that I could've said it any better. Now if more of this mixed up world could see things this way, I don't think that these so called church folk will get off their high horse and learn acceptance instead of ignorance.


phatkay28 35F

6/15/2009 12:53 am

HONEY, YOU HAVE SAID A MOUTH FULL AND I GIVE YOU MUCH DAME RESPECT, I AGREE WITH EVER THING YOU HAVE SAID YOU R A REAL TRUE BIFEMALE, AND MAD PROPSTO YOUR HUSBAND FOR BEING A REAL MAN AND STAYING BY YOUR SIDE AND BEING DOWN WITH YOU, WISH SUM MEN WAS UNDERSTANDING LIKE YOUR YOURS. A FEMALE TURN ME ON MORE THAN A MAN BUT UM BI TOO IT'S JUST SUMTHING ABOUT US WOMEN THAT JUST KNOW WAT WE LIKE. BUT THANK YOU FOR LAYING IT OUT ON THE LINE, YA'LL BE BLESSED IN EVERYTHING YA'LL DO


DetDik313rd 33M
5 posts
12/13/2009 10:53 pm

You made some really good points.


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