reality or cyber..........  

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
998 posts
2/15/2006 9:16 am
reality or cyber..........

I am back with a great attitude

LET me say first off. PLEASE........I DO NOT WANT ANY SCHROLLING IN MY BLOG COMMENTS ANYWHERE. I appreciate those who have done this, but...please don't do it again I will contact AdultFriendFinder and have them stopped. There are reasons why they don't want those in the groups, blogs, magazines, anywhere. Anyone who is a computer whiz, should know better and understand this! For the person who sent me that email, she should know better and have stopped it in February, instead of reprimanding me and then going to her blog and posting the ways to do this! Shame on her, for doing that. Shame on me for allowing her to get to me like that

With that being said, I had to step away, I was allowing this "CYBER WORLD" to cross over into my real world? Holy shit, its a cyber world, not the real world.

Like I told a person at AdultFriendFinder whom I have been in contact with...."I have better things to do with my time" I do After all; don't we all, if we truly have a real life and know the damn difference between reality and cyber world? I know I have a real world life. I DO NOT NEED TO BE ADDING TO THE CHILDISHNESS THAT THIS SITE SEEMS TO ATTRACT TO CROSS OVER! I have enough drama in my real world, I have enough stress, I have my own damn problems. I DON'T NEED THE CHILDNESS, THE DRAMA THAT SOME ENJOY TO CREATE FOR ATTENTION, THE PROBLEMS THAT SOME ENJOY TO CREATE FOR ATTENTION, THAT THIS SITE SEEMS TO ATTRACT TO CROSS OVER!

I came to this site to have fun, put my own thoughts out there. To meet other great people, for friends only. If I truly wanted to get laid. I would talk to my husband or some of the guy friends that I have

I follow the TOU rules to a letter. Always have and will continue to

I DID NOT JOIN THIS SITE TO EVENTUALLY BE CONFUSED BETWEEN REALITY AND CYBER WORLD. That is exactly where I started to go. I allowed certain individuals to suck me in....grrrrrrr NO MORE!

This is NOT MY REALITY, this is a place to talk and have fun.

With that being said, as you see I have taken my profile to a silver, I feel that I have more control over those who enjoy being a pain in my ass It is now time to start practicing what I preach to others

Now where did I leave off? Oh yeah I was having fun

I adore all of you and appreciate all of you, thanks

hugs and smiles

picture is mine and copyrighted 2006(C) bct2esi

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/19/2006 6:46 pm

There was a post here that was left by one "sleeplessknight1" that in my opinion was not really qualified to be here for it went after a person who posted here. I wanted to leave it so that all could see it.

I didn't want this person back on my blog, so I clicked on that wonderful "permanently ban" button. Oooops he went away along with his comment? Now I did this to "bob-thecommentor" or however she spells his name. Yes it is a she posing as a man, we know who she is..Anyway I clicked on ban and the comment which was directed at someone who had posted in my blog and had NOTHING to do with me. Remained so I deleted it.

Why it erased sleeplesskinghts comment I am clueless. I did want it to remain so all could see it.

Now with that being said. Hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/19/2006 6:40 pm

My dear friend Katey, you are soo very right

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/19/2006 6:36 pm

Babel...dont worry I am NOT letting them get to me anymore AS a matter of fact, I am enjoying my "delete this comment and permanently ban buttons" Lets leave the drama to the drama queens and blog on

I guess its a good thing that this did happen to me I am so enjoying my silver membership and all the wonderful features it brings me

Thanks for stopping by

Hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/19/2006 6:31 pm

Cowboy_deluxe its all good, I thought that's what it was but wasn't sure

Thanks for stopping by blog

hugs and smiles

sleeplessknight1 68M

2/18/2006 11:22 am

On here or off of here I am the same.......
So of course here and elsewhere cross over......
for its the same reality.....

Just seems a shame that when people try to help, or make a helpful comment, they get misunderstood and shouted at... and when others shout and stamp their feet, that people do not see it, for what it really is.....
and thats reality too, I guess..........

isnt it odd that 2 people can make almost the same comment and one gets attacked and the other overlooked.......

Is so easy to misunderstand in type...but some things are
clearly understood.....
but I confess I didnt understand your comment Mandy....

back to blogging.....
just hope the world of blog returns to some normality.....

Wonders if this will ever be seen or whether this will get deleted too..... well cest la vie.. not losing sleep over it.....


Babel__Fish 45F

2/18/2006 7:10 am

Don't let the others effect your moods or the fact that you want to blog. And glad to see you back with a great attitude!



rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/17/2006 8:21 pm


thank you, those words of hers are very true

You my friend are a great friend as well

thank you so much for being there and listening

hugs and smiles

[size1] yes my best friend is home, she posted on the "taking a break" thank you for asking, i have so missed here

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/17/2006 8:19 pm

{{{{{{{{{{{ Bard}}}}}}}}}}}}}} yep sweetie I remember that and between remembering that, your post (which you know which one) and great friends like you and others

I shall blog on

Thank you for you

hugs and smiles

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

2/17/2006 5:28 pm

Hey lady in response to your email..sorry I'm puttin'it here, just can't email thats all. In my last post I was describing a bad quality of myself, and it is what it is. You can read it again..certain events unfolded on my blog that got me to realize this habit of mine. No it ain't the drinkin'.. It is when other people pick on other people I lose it.. and I won't stand for it. So I was sharin' about myself thats all..I do that everytime I blog.


pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
2/17/2006 2:31 pm

"When you ask God for a gift,
Be thankful if he sends,
Not diamonds, pearls or riches,
but the love of real true friends

by Helen Steiner Rice

You are a very dear friend!


bardicman 50M

2/17/2006 1:56 pm

Yep, Just blog on. Leave the drama to the drama queens. Its really not worth it. I found myself lost in it and it cost me a possibly wonderful relationship. I got up. Dusted myself off. and learned a very important lesson.

I am not dead yet

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/17/2006 9:31 am going to do that thank you for stopping by again

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/17/2006 6:16 am

{{{{{{{{Pleasure}}}}}}}} and smooches right back at ya

Thanks for listening and helping

Thank you for you

I did have one here for you, but somewhere along the line it went MIA? So here it is again

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:31 pm


Very true words sweetie, its amazing how many people cant separate the two though

Thank you for you, lets dance

hugs and smiles

sorry I missed you, in the rotation of this

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:27 pm


Thank you sweetie. I was missing some of you. You are right its my blog, my group and I should be in charge as long as I am following the TOU what is it anyones business With that being said..........

Its all good, so you wanna dance? Lets dance

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:22 pm

{{{{{{{{pleasure}}}}}}}} and smooches right back at ya

Thanks my friend, for listening and being there

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:21 pm


You are right there is a joke in the midst of all of that

You are one of my favorite pains in the ass, thank you for the laugh

Its all good, your next in line to dance Get those feet warmed up...hehehehe

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:16 pm

{{{{{Deep}}}}} well I don't have to anymore, I went to silver, making it a little tougher for some of those to get to me

Its all good sweetie, wanna dance?

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 8:11 pm


I luvs you to girlfriend, and the imortal hand is what some need I will make sure that I am there to kiss your hand after each one

WE are dancing now, so lets dance

hugs, luvs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 7:53 pm

Pink, thank you for stopping by my little... remodeled corner of AdultFriendFinder

stop by anytime, you are very correct with those words

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 7:51 pm


My dear friend, you bet your sweet little wet spot we need to get those deliveries out. We have people anxiously awaiting

Lets dance naked through the blogs

hugs, luvs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 7:49 pm


thank you for you and listening

hugs and smiles

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
1375 posts
2/16/2006 7:40 pm

{{{{{{{{{ teddy bear}}}}}}}}

I just needed to DANCE[\b]

Yes I am back

Hugs and smiles

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
2/16/2006 3:58 pm

Glad you are staying,don't let people dictate what you do.

pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
2/16/2006 2:56 pm

Oh, nice to see you back sweetie!


pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
2/16/2006 2:55 pm

& hugs


sillyperv 54M

2/16/2006 8:33 am

Scrolling in your blog???? Que fa? I knooowwww noottthhhinggg!
Anyway enjoy.
Oh and about "controling those who enjoy being a pain in your ass"
1. Awwww, stop picking on your husband.
2. Absolutely. Change positions if you're not comfortable.
3. I hear a dog collar works.
4. Give up when the muse is not amusing.

I know there's a good joke here somewhere. Shame on you this is going to bug all day. Pain in the ass! Hey!

No still nothing.
I go now.

elysianpleasure 47M

2/15/2006 9:47 pm

Welcome back to the Matrix... none of this is real... but then what is

Deepthroat215 52M
328 posts
2/15/2006 7:36 pm

Thanks for staying on board...I can't imagine the crap you have to put up with.!

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

2/15/2006 6:59 pm

MY dear friend,

I want not for you to be sad, because I love ya so girlfriend.

I want you to know I think even the immortal shall be put in their place, by my hand...


Always The Bitch

pinkplaytoyz 49F

2/15/2006 6:11 pm

good post! Keeping a proper perspective is healthy, getting into the drama is not...

TTigerAtty 62M

2/15/2006 12:21 pm


NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
2/15/2006 12:20 pm

Glad you're still here.


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