death of a child at the holidays  

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
998 posts
12/5/2005 4:07 pm
death of a child at the holidays


Our tiny community experienced yet another one

Today was her memorial, yep I did the "reflections through pictures" slide show for the family. I knew this young lady personally, she was a friend of my daughters. So doing her slide show helped me deal with her tragic death.

This one was sad, but....Dad kept telling all of us to smile, especially us who knew her since the second grade.

Now it makes us wonder.......

So much loss so close to the holidays, once again I am urging all who have children to hug them, love them, let them know they are loved, in a new york minute their lives can be gone. Treat each day with a blessing, there may not be a tomorrow,

God bless all and may you all have a happy holiday filled with love, laughter, and memories

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/10/2005 11:23 am

rcseekfun....thank you...but like her father requested, we are keeping her memory alive

With all the death that my family has endured this year, you can bet your happy hiney that I am giving as many hugs, and "I love you's" that I can Even if its through email

I am so Happy to hear that you two worked your problems out and have once again remarried Kudoo's You and your family have a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday as well

hugs and smiles from us


rcseekfun 54M/46F
2 posts
12/10/2005 9:34 am

i share your sarrow for the young lady you are talking about and friend and family' although i never got a chance to meet her she was a big insperation to alot of people in a lot of towns. i have herd and read about her a lot since i moved here and stayed, then started talking w/my ex and got her to move here and we got remaried and are now a happy family again. the loss of anyone hurts and can come at any time so give your family as many hugs and kisses a day as you can and show the lovethey need tosee!!! best wishes to you and yours this holiday season from rcseekfun and kids


rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/6/2005 6:43 am

sensually.....it has definetly been a first, for a lot of gathering and giving of emotional support I guess it was time to remind all of us who have lived here "forever" who our friends and neighbors are and that in the end we are not alone up here on this hill, nor are we immune from some of the tragedies that seem to hit the bigger cities, that we too, will expereince grief and saddness.

Have a happy holiday and thank you


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