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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
998 posts
12/19/2005 6:48 am
confused

Ok I am way confused here? If you all could only see the look on my face at this very moment.

I dont understand why, when someone posts on their blogs about "emotional abuse" and they are NOT going to take it anymore, boom they are gone?

Take sensuallykatey, earlier this morning I checked her blog, the words she spoke were very concerning to me, she wouldn't let any one post comments. I went to email her personally to see if she was ok, her profile turned off? Then I go back onto her blog just a few minutes ago and she has disappeared, her blogs from the 17th until this morning are gone? No way of asking if she is OK. So if anyone knows her personally, please let her know that I am concerned, let me know that she is OK

Then silhouette2005 same thing, she left us all a note saying she was taking a break, she just couldn't take the emotional abuse that she was getting from others on AdultFriendFinder?

What is up with this? Why is it that some assholes on this site are allowed, their words so harsh, mean and ugly that it drives the good ones away? Why is it that AdultFriendFinder claims they won't allow certain things, yet they allow this type of abuse? Why is it that AdultFriendFinder picks and chooses who can and cannot post their words, yet they allow this sort of abuse?

How can you people who speak these words, look in the mirror and be proud of what you have done? Are you that narrow minded, small minded, shallow, child like, miserable and immature? Do you speak to your mother this way, what would your mother say if she knew that you were doing this to others that you have never met! How can you sit in judgment? Who gave you that right to point a finger at someone and not take a look at that hand and point it right back at yourself? Your victims that you choose to abuse, what did they do to you? Is your life so freaking screwed up and miserable that you get your jollies out of making others miserable as well? What is going threw your brain of mush that tells you its OK to do this? How can you people in charge of AdultFriendFinder allow this and go on with your day?

I grew up in an abusive home, have over came alot of harsh words, some of those words are still there and still keep that FEAR there in certain areas of my life. I know how horrible emotional abuse can be, I know how words can kill a person in every aspect of their life.

So I am asking those buttheads of AdultFriendFinder, what the fuck is your problem, are you all from abusive families and think that the emotional postings are funny, good for ratings, etc? You are sick, words are the best or worst form of happiness or harm! They can either reach down and take you by the heart and send you soring into the clouds, or they can reach down and slice your heart to a bazillion pieces causing so much harm and grief that there is NO way of recovery!

ughhhhhhhhhh



rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/21/2005 8:45 am

well pleasure....it worked I am now ready to tackle that last little bit I have left thank you

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pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
12/20/2005 5:52 pm

{color indigo] mmm have nice big hands so can i pick the spot to start?


rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/20/2005 2:53 pm

well yeah I should be, I am bored at scanning the pictures in, and my shoulders hurt from doing that. I had a neice take advantage of it and wants me to put all her crap on a DVD for her while I am scanning some of her pictures for my mother n laws DVD.....aghhhhhhh

Sooooo you wanna come rub them for me so I can get back to that project? eg hehehehe

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pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
12/20/2005 1:55 pm

I read her blogs a few times and she had a way with words and was really gifted! Like you hope she fine and just taking a break.
You should be working the project and not typing on the keyboard hehe



rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/20/2005 6:36 am

I have to agree Mrs. Xes, I use to be just like some of these who are taking this way to litterally. I have read some of the hateful things and said to myself...what the hell prompted that?
It did affect me, oh how it affected me. Then I created my "AdultFriendFinder reality website" group and have decided that if I get anymore negative, hateful things, I will simply post it there That way, its a reminder of where I use to be and where I am now and how it is obviously upsetting someone that I have grown and they haven't

Now, I have become best friends with the "delete" button We are buddies...hehehe

I do believe there is something alot deeper then that going on, I do hope that she is OK I am keeping her in my thoughts and prayers

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XesSex03 50M/49F

12/19/2005 5:43 pm

I really enjoy your blog, and hope you won't take offense at what I'm about to say...

While I agree with you, that people should have the decency not to be hateful to someone, especially on a blog where they are posting their feelings and thoughts, I also feel that some of the bloggers take it too personal. While I do not know about sensuallykatey, or silhouette, I have seen some bloggers on here twist some of the stuff that is said WAY out of context. I feel we should all take the comments on our blogs with a grain of salt. "If you don't like the blog you're reading...DON'T READ IT!" and "If you take the comments to personal...DON'T ALLOW THEM!" should be rules of thumb on here.

Mrs. Xes


rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/19/2005 12:06 pm

thank you i will go and check them out maybe add a few of my own I am just hoping that everything is ok with katey.

I am so sorry that you had such a rotten step dad I am so thankful that sprky has been a blessing to my son and they are close because of it My step dad is great I just dont understand why some feel the need to be so horrible?

off to check those blogs and then back to bed, even the clickety-clak of the keyboard is causing my head to pound

hugs and smiles


NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
12/19/2005 11:43 am

I agree totally. I, myself, grew up in a hostile environment. I had a military stepdad, who had anger issues. The slightest thing would set him off. He tore me down to the point where I was considering suicide. Which is why I never got my driver's license till this year. When he and my mom split up, it was the best thing that happened to me, coz if they stayed together, I'm sure I would not be here today.

I don't understand why these morons feel the need to tear someone down. SensuallyKatey didn't need that. She's a sweet lady. There's another lady who's blog I watch, [blog LacyCuffs], who hadn't posted in a while. I considered emailing her to see if she's ok.

Check out PrincessKarma's blog, coz she goes after the assholes, knuckle draggers, she calls them. She provides a valueable service to the bloggers.

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