Oh no she did not........  

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
998 posts
1/19/2006 9:30 am
Oh no she did not........

Ok this is a question that has been bugging me for quite some time. I posted this on a group that I am in.

To my surprise didn't get any help with this. So here it goes..........

Regarding strap ons, its a curiosity I have, I am hoping to get an answer. I have asked a friend of my and got her response and now I would like others.

What is the deal with woman having these? I know several people who have one, two, or several, I have always been curious about them. Have not yet went and purchased one. I don't think I will until my curiosity is satisfied through my questioning.

For the record I did this question and cruiosity thing before I went and got my tongue and belly buttoned pierced. I am just weird like this. Ask a lot of questions before I purchase something.

Please help me out here, what is the big deal?

To be honest with you, I truly don't see the use or need in all the "toys"? Never have, give me the real thing Or I will wait until I get the real thing. Yes I do have some, I used them once and promptly got over it, NOW I NEVER USE THEM, they sit in my drawer, collecting dust.

Now I know I can already hear some of you going...."wtf, is this womans problem?" That is just me, I have never seen the use or the need in these? Am I wierd, out of my mind? Maybe, but I would rather have the real thing, if I have to wait, well then I will.

My curiosity always gets the best of me, so please help me out with this, before I go to the expense of purchasing this just to see what the big deal is. Help me out here,

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/26/2006 7:54 pm

Trav, good point? now, why didn't I think of that? roflao

nice pic by the way

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/21/2006 10:01 am

Mustang, very true Dang I do believe I need to get HBO, I am missing out on a lot

thanks for the email

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/21/2006 9:59 am

My jojo, that is why I am asking? thank you, on why your girlfriend uses them I never thought about reaching spots that a woman cant reach

thank you

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/21/2006 9:57 am

Lucious...very true, wow, Sprky says the same thing that you said, about taking "homosexual" out of the picture makes for an erotic event

I truly enjoy your blog,

thanks for stoping my mine

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redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
1/20/2006 4:59 pm

I saw a HBO Real Sex episode where lesbians were using strapons and enjoying each other; the strapon bumped the wearer's clit so she enjoyed it. My guess is that some women like to pretend they are guys with a dick, real penis envy! I think women have lovely pussies that last much longer than men's dicks in sex, so why bother but it takes all kinds to make a sexy world...

rm_jojoyoyojojo 56M
73 posts
1/20/2006 12:03 pm

The thing I've wondered about strap-ons is that what sensation does a woman get? It looks like all work and no play. Sure there is a time to just give without receiving but how often would that be fun? My girl likes vibrators cause she can hit spots she can't otherwise reach. She too prefers the real thing but occassionally likes a toy.

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/20/2006 6:14 am

curious, thank you...I was beginging to think I was strange because I feel like this.

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/20/2006 6:09 am

Toothy, *giggles with an evil grin*

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curious082385 31F
4925 posts
1/20/2006 12:50 am

I wish that I could contribute more in the way of an answer, but personally, I'm with you. Although I have a few toys, they really are more of a last resort, or something to be enjoyed with my partner. But I would much rather have the real thing.

toothysmile 50M
16514 posts
1/19/2006 11:07 pm

I 've never seen any of this in person, but...
I suppose these are for women to use on men who enjoy being anally penetrated... or in women on women situations.
They probably come in handy in threesomes or larger group activities... ...

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/19/2006 3:26 pm

Ride this is the post Letting Go

Oh my heaven that is talent in writing, I do beleive I will be checking her blog out

thanks for sending me over there

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/19/2006 3:16 pm

{{{{{{{teddy bear}}}}}}}}} "Hey you" well start sending people over here I am curious to know what the big deal is hehehehe

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/19/2006 3:15 pm

{{{{{{{{ride}}}}}}}}} thank you

as for the links it goes like this you put this "[" in front and then the "[post" and then the number of the post, and the you close it with "]", the number of the post is found at the bottome of the frame, scroll to the bottom and its right there

I will hop over there and check that out

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NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
1/19/2006 1:56 pm

I'm not sure how I could contribute. All I'm really doing right now is stopping by to say hi. LOL

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

Rideandfun1000 60M

1/19/2006 11:54 am

Not being a woman I think it is... hard for me to contribute from that perspective...

But - different... strokes for different folks?

If we shift over to the strap on being used on guys (just go with me here for minute - I haven't experienced that), but reading "Letting Go" by LusciousAndBent (sorry I don't know how to do links) puts an interesting 'perspective' on it - I admit after reading that - it at least gives pause to a straight guy like me... maybe it's just the way she writes - she has a gift of expression and the creation of atmosphere...

Other than that, I just want to say about the current pic on your profile - NICE ass! *whew*...


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