My 100th post  

rm_Bct2Esi 50M/50F
998 posts
7/23/2006 2:41 pm
My 100th post

My 100th post which will be my last one on this sight. I have had some wonderful times while being on here, meant some great people and have came across some twits with no common sense, and have a hearing a problem!

I take full responsibility for me finally getting fed up with those who READ MORE INTO THINGS THAT ARE SAID, INSTEAD OF ACTUALLY PAYING THE HELL ATTENTION AND LISTENING! What has caused this? Well......You see I made the mistake of telling a person where my husband and I were going to be this weekend. They made the remark that they would like to try Orvis, so I said. “well we are going this weekend, if your going to get a room you better get it booked now!” that is it! NOT one time did I say, “come join us, we will be your tour guide, travel agent and entertainer or that it will be a party”. I stressed each and every time we talked, this “WAS OUR ANNIVERSARY WEEKEND, OUR WEEKEND TO GET AWAY FROM THE STRESS OF WORK AND RELAX” not one time did I say, “join us, we will be your tour guide, travel agent, entertainer, it will be a party!” NOPE! Last Thursday we had dinner with these people. I stressed more then once, ‘THIS IS OUR ANNIVERSARY WEEKEND, OUR WEEKEND TO GET AWAY, RELAX”

Well they ask us, what are you guys doing Saturday night? ONLY after I said, “this is our anniversary weekend, we have NO PLANS, all we know is that we are NOT going home until Sunday. They say, well we are thinking of getting a room in Ridgeway since there are NO rooms available at Orvis. I said, They only had Friday night open when I called so we will be there Friday night and then who knows for Saturday. That is ALL I said. NOTHING MORE! NOT one time did I say, come over lets party!

Well we were NOT there Saturday when they got there, and one of the laides proceeded to call my husbands cell phone what seemed like every ten minutes. She even sent him a text message, so I responded back (thinking this would get the point across) with a text saying; “sorry missed your call, limited cell service, with a couple, have fun at Orvis” click on send. This same lady then took it upon herself to call our house! She told our daughter she was someone else, so our daughter gave her my cell phone Then she called me. NO I didn’t answer, I am thinking; “what part of THIS IS OUR ANNIVERSARY WEEKEND WE HAVE NO PLANS, WE WANT TO RELAX, DID THEY NOT UNDERSTAND?” All of it! When they called our daughter they told her that we said, that we would meet them at ORVIS, OH NO WE DID NOT!

So, my stress free weekend, went right into the toilet when the calls started coming in! I was so upset over this, I was crying on the way home, wasn’t paying attention to my speed and was pulled over for speeding (I haven’t ever cried for getting pulled over that is how upset these three people got me). The State Trooper couldn’t believe how hard I started to cry, even asked me why I was crying. When my husband told him we had a bad weekend, was talking and I wasn’t paying attention to my speed, he let me off easy. I had just told my husband, why do some AdultFriendFinder people read into things that ARE NOT THERE OR SAID, why do some have to be so dayum pushy that body language doesn’t get threw to them. Why do some AdultFriendFinder people get pissy when we want time alone. What part of, “we are going to be over there, seem to get some who DON’T LISTEN, to automatically thinking and giving them the idea that we want to “hook up, have sex, and party?” When it in no way implies anything?!! Then I saw the Patrolmen turn around and pulled over, I knew it was me!

I made a decision last night at dinner, before I was called by HER, to leave this place, there is too much implication here. I am tired of being called a bitch when I don’t do what others think I should be doing! I am tied of implications, I am tired of some thinking I and we want to fuck all the men and woman that we meet! I, we were feeling a ton of pressure from these three, I was feeling like I was being made to do something I didn’t want to do. I saw a look on my husbands face that I have NEVER seen before when this woman wouldn’t leave him alone! He is a human being NOT a piece of meat! Since I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, when I get a feeling of pressure, saw that look on my husbands face, panic sets in and I start looking for an exit! I saw that exit, we left our quiet little relaxation time, allowed them to run us off before they got there, so we didn’t have to deal with them. I take full responsibility for this weekend being shity. I will NOT take responsibility for those who refuse to listen and want more then friendship from us.

NO where in our profiles does it state, lets get together and fuck like bunnies! NO where in our profiles does it state, that every time we go to ORVIS it’s a party. Newsflash, Orvis Hot Springs is not the MonChalet in Denver. IT is a respectful family, clothing optional hot springs!

I want to thank those three, for being the asses and children that they are and causing us so much stress that it ended up ruining the rest of our weekend. I should NOT have allowed them to do this, I understand this. They should have LISTENED TO WHAT I SAID AND RAELIZED THAT WE WERE NOT THEIR TRAVEL AGENT, TOUR GUIDE AND ENTERTAINER. THIS WEEKEND WAS ABOUT US, not them! We thought the couple of these three understood that. Since they were with this lady I blame them right along with her! I told them to enjoy Orvis, have fun. Did they? Probably NOT, they sat in that motel room and pouted, waiting for us to come take their wittle hands and lead them the two miles up the road to the Hot Springs. Hmmmm my husband and I didn’t have another couple lead us there, entertain us when we went our first time? Not at any time did we ever say, ‘COME JOIN US, WE WILL BE YOUR TOUR GUIDE, TRAVEL AGENT AND ENTERTAINER FOR THE NIGHT, IT WILL BE A PARTY!” Like the male of this trio thought it was going to be and even went as far as posting that in the Mountain Chat room that WE were having an AdultFriendFinder party. I enjoyed coming home last weekend from the relay of life walk (American cancer walk, its an all night thing) go to bed only to have my husband wake me up furious and ask me to come see what this male is posting! We instantly get IM”d regarding this “party” and have to set the record straight, “this is NOT a PARTY, it’s a stress free anniversary weekend for us!” nothing else! Those that IM”d us, got the BIG PICTURE, THEN I STRESSED IT THURSDAY NIGHT AT DINNER, ONE MORE TIME!” As we are leaving they all say, especially the single female that was with this couple to my husband; “let us know if your plans change” I looked at them and said “this is OUR anniversary weekend, we have NO PLANS!” Where did the get, lets party, we will be thier entertainer, tour guide and travel agent? WHERE!!!! Am I missing something? I want to know where I or we said.....LETS GET TOGATHER AND FUCK ALL NIGHT LONG AND ENTERTAIN EACH OTHER AND EXPERIENCE ORVIS TOGATHER?" WHERE!!!!!!!!

We had this same thing happen to us last year, the same time frame by a different couple. So, I am done, finished. I don’t need this bullshit, hell WE don’t need this bullshit! All we were after were FRIENDS, not weekend fuck partners! Some just don’t understand that! In turn ruining the greatness of this site. Yes I have allowed this, I don't know what else to do. I have tried being nice, being a bitch, ignoring these implications and laughing it off to stupidity. Enough is enough when they go to the extemene of calling our daughter and lieing about who they are to get to me! That is SO NOT COOL !!! To A POINT ACTUALLY SCARY AS HELL! Maks me think about what else this single woman would do to get to my husband! When he has told her, he doesn't want anything but frienship from her! What else? I am NOT taking chances, I am gone from here!!

I have had fun being here, you were all great, got me through some rough times. We have cheered for each other, cried with and for each other, went to battle for and aginst each other. I won’t ever forget you all There isn’t a day that I don’t think of some of you and wondering what the heck you are up to. For those that have my personal email address, please feel free to keep in touch Its been real, its been fun, at times real fun. Thank YOU all for all the love, support, hell and kick ass times I will leave my profile on for a little while, I will be turning it off. God speed all of you

Hugs smooches, loves and smiles

ps. after I posted this I received an email from a 32 year old male that lives close to us....he has finally decided to join this site since I am always talking about the greatness of this place. How funny....... To this date I have successfully recruited a brother n law, my sister, her girlfreind, and now our 32 year old nephew (only he is willing to fork out the money for a membership). What are the odds, I am leaving and he is coming in

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

8/31/2006 11:39 am

I miss you so much, and really wished I could talk to you again.


Always The Bitch

Wyone 57M/48F  
63 posts
8/16/2006 6:10 am

Well I have to say, I have NEVER posted to a blog before. But BCT has a way of bringing out things in me that I didn't think I could do. I am VERY sad that anyone could ever upset two of the best people I have ever met. I don't mean on AdultFriendFinder, I mean in life. I am amazed that people put themselves first, and especially with you two. You are both such great people and always give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and go the extra mile to make other smile. I will be VERY VERY sad that we did not spend more time together. BCT, you KNOW how I feel about you. You know how greatful I am that you were there for me when I was struggling. I am thankful to have met you and will always consider you a friend. You will ALWAYS be welcome in our home!! And as sexy and gorgeous as you are, and as much as I have lusted you for years, your friendship has meant the world to me. Please whatever you do, do NOT forget our friendship. Who else is going to supply my Dr Pepper and Twizzler? You have our phone numbers (if not PLEASE let me know) and my IM, and are ALWAYS welcome to stop by. I might even try to behave!

LOVE YOU!!!!!!! TRULY!!!

rm_SWSunset64 51F
3940 posts
7/31/2006 9:02 am

Sorry to see you leave!



bardicman 50M

7/28/2006 11:38 am

You will be missed

I am not dead yet

rm_WeMetOnAFF 60M/60F
27 posts
7/28/2006 8:37 am

mmm ... will be sad and miss you too ...


Toodela found
sensuallyKatey now
[blog WeMetOnAFF]

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/27/2006 9:49 pm

I'm going to miss you... IM me, won't you?

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
7/25/2006 8:39 pm

I'll miss you if you go. You have my email addy, don't you?

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

trmcca 42M
1 post
7/24/2006 10:57 pm

It's to bad that i never had the opportunity to meet you, from what i've read you are an amazing couple. I wish you both the best!!

rm_WeMetOnAFF 60M/60F
27 posts
7/24/2006 8:53 am

it is all good sexy sexy girlfriend...
YOU and I know how to get ahold of one another...
we have direct smokin lines to one another.....
hugs, Kate (well and T too)

Toodela found
sensuallyKatey now
[blog WeMetOnAFF]

sillyperv 54M

7/24/2006 8:11 am

I guess, because of the nature of this site, the obsessive compulsive, thick as a brick and dumb as a plank prone to unattractive thigh pimples people can infest our lives at any given opportunity. The anonimity and ambiguity caused by the internet lets people in the door that would have otherwise have been shut on their excessively pimply thighs. Too bad. Take care of yourself. I've enjoyed your blog.

P.S. Though I must admit disappointment at your unwillingness to "fuck like bunnies" on a weekend. How about like badgers then? Lemmings? Rut like Rhinos? Pandas? Hmmm, though Pandas only do it like twice a year (which is the chronic relationship issue between Ling Ling and Ping Ping in the China zoo and the cause of Ling Ling's weight gain, though no one talks about it) and then we'd have to coordinate weekends and then if our weekends didn't match ............

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