What You Give Is What You Get....  

rm_Bastetsmuse 54F
23 posts
5/22/2006 9:31 pm

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What You Give Is What You Get....

As happens to a lot of folk here at AdultFriendFinder, I was stood up yesterday.

Shit happens, right?

What I didn't expect was to get a call from the dude today telling me that he "just felt burned out and didn't want to talk to anyone" and that he wanted me to understand .... WTF? This is the second man on AdultFriendFinder within the past month with ISSUES that I am supposed to understand... and suck up, obviously.

I refused. I said if he had been courteous enough to even EMAIL yesterday, that would have been fine; now, where is the apology? Uhhhh.... he felt that explaining (RATIONALIZING!) was more important, and that I was taking a 'hard line.' You bet your ass I was -- my time is valuable and I'm not wasting one more minute of it. I said goodbye ... and then was treated to two 'voicemail rants' where he tried to make me the bad guy.

Nope. If you make a date, keep it -- or apologize and ask politely for a second chance. If the lady dressed up for you, you're a boor and an idiot to do anything less.

ruth_858585 31F

5/22/2006 10:30 pm

i totally agree with u and i cant believe he did that, what an ass. i would be totally pissed.

rm_Bastetsmuse replies on 5/23/2006 7:16 am:
And guys wonder why they can't get laid .... !

the_bear21 45M

5/23/2006 5:10 pm

The lesson here is if you have a pathetic excuse, it is time to get creative with a good lie.

rm_Bastetsmuse replies on 5/23/2006 6:29 pm:
I suppose that COULD be a lesson -- if you're a player, a boor, or an asshole.

Try apologizing -- you'll be amazed when you don't need to do anything more than be sincerely sorry you wasted someone's time.

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