Month 1: A Summary  

rm_Balanon2 48M
35 posts
9/4/2005 7:30 pm

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Month 1: A Summary

Today is my one month anniversary with Hotmatch. I decided it would be good idea to see how much I’ve accomplished, or at least attempted to accomplish, during that time. What’s changed and what has not? It’s only been a month and I don’t expect to a lot, and I’m sure you my dear reader (maybe someday I can make that plural) expect even less.

Weather: Aug. 4th - sunny and warm. Today- rainy and cool.

Message Center/E-mail Stats

Messages Sent: 130
Messages Received (MR): 73
MRs Unique Sender: 36
MRs from Autoreplys: 30
MRs as RE: to me: 12
MRs as RE: RE: RE:s : 4
MRs from Porn Sites: 10
Quickreplys Not Interested: 2
Quickreplys Maybe: 0
Quickreplys Interested: 0
Personalized Rejections: 0
Expressions of Interest to Meet: 2
Actual Meetings: 0
Scheduled Meetings: 0
Winks Sent: 3 (I don’t really see the use)
Winks received: 2 (1 Couple, 1 Woman)
Black Holes discovered: 46+
Real E-mail Addresses Received (ie not Porn site bait): 4
Real Phone Numbers Received: 1 (in outside e-mail conversation)


Friends: 17
Pending: 5
Declined: 5
Invites I Received: 3
Invites I Declined: 1


My Blog Posts: 3 (counting this one)
My Blog Total Views: 53
My Blog Total Comments: 2
Blogs I Watch: 5
Posts Watching: 5
Posts I’ve Made: no clue, but quite a few (is there a way to track this?)

Magazine Activity

Articles: 0
Article Comments: 4
Advice Questions: 0
Advice Responses: 11
Score: 9

Other Stuff

Groups Joined: 5
Points: 700
Purity Score: 48
Purity Change (since joining): 0
Times laid in last month: 2
Due to internet dating sites: 0

I wish I could say that things can only get better, but from many other posts I've read I'm actually doing fairly well for a guy. Not the most encouraging thought. Oh, well. I'm just here to have fun.

Bossman18013 53M/53F

9/4/2005 8:02 pm

I think this takes time here, When we joined we figured it would take us a while to find someone we would like. We have also been here a month. We have met 2 men, 1 good, 1 ok, but no girls. Girls seem to be the problem on here, very difficult to meet. Just guess we are more picky.

mandagirl85 31F

9/8/2005 9:38 pm

You know sweety, Ive talked to a few guys that have been on this site before, and trust me your not bad off!
They all expressed how hard it was to meet "real" women off of this site.
But rest assured.. I'm real, and If I am real that means that there must be other women out there that are real too!
Stay positive.. And hopefully you will find what you are seeking..
Stay Sexy too!

rm_Balanon2 48M
193 posts
9/10/2005 6:15 pm

Bossman- I don't think the women have a choise about being picky. It's just the population ratio of the site. So, where do I find a place with the reverse dynamic?

mandagirl- Thanks!

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