When the deed is done  

rm_BabyIsHotxx 48F
84 posts
10/29/2005 3:46 pm
When the deed is done

I recently got this question, and would like to give some feedback.

""...But my biggest question is, what are you going to do with daddy when its over and the deed is done. Kick him to the curve, let him visit sometimes, move away and disapear...""

It's a good question, and i had thought i answered it some already. Perhaps i wasn't very clear. The man who helps me and i will decide that together.

If a relationship develops, then he'll likely be a full time dad. If it doesn't, and he wants to be a dad(full-time or part-time), we'll work out the details. If he wants to just walk away from it all, that's ok too.

The only exception to all of this is if i think, for ANY reason, he is a danger to me or my baby. I would never allow a man who seems like a threat near me. However, most women who get battered, start with a man who -seems- non threatening. This is the real world, and i have thought about this too.

rm_267262 58M

10/30/2005 5:56 am

...would you marry IF the relationship is right for YOU and the MAN ???

after all shared lives and shared blood and, shared responsabilities.

rm_BabyIsHotxx 48F
16 posts
10/31/2005 3:40 pm

Yes, i would if the relationship was right. However, there are a lot of if's involved in the situation.

rm_267262 58M

11/1/2005 1:36 am

IF's and more if's. Ha ha!, we sound like Clinton, "what is if?".

Baby we should of met when we were younger, when we didn't think but with our bodies now we are older and the IF's get in the way but you are right.

I'd rather talk about the IF's though than not with you. All though the if's are of give and take. Now that we are older in life the IF's become more promanent but we also see some of those IF's kind of petty as we have lived life longer, and see what happened to friends families along our journey with their "if" issues. The older we are we appriciate life and ea other more I think. Babies, tots, childern, teens, young adults need love and a mom and dad.

What if?.......

rm_267262 58M

11/2/2005 8:21 pm

I am here Baby , I am here as I have extended...what are your plans?..


rm_267262 58M

11/4/2005 7:55 pm

Some great days ahead to get to know one another... We could be kicking up leaves, sweating in the indian summer and howling in the wind as we have mind blowing wild orgasmic raw sex in the wilderness of Virginia..........

SpursWaverTryst 57M
8 posts
7/13/2006 10:01 pm

Ya know, I really used to be as cavalier as not only she is but as some of these guys are. Now I've got a kid and frankly, I would NOT want someone else having my kid and me not having any say/relationship with the kid. This means NO "if we click" kinda crap...I would want guaranteed access to the kid and the ability to be a father figure with the kid... Frankly, the kid being raised sans father is doing the kid a big disservice just because your clock is ticking like Big Ben at High Noon...

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