rm_BabyIsHotxx 48F
84 posts
11/7/2005 11:08 am

For those men who are concerned about responsibility after the baby is born....

I now have a LEGAL AGREEMENT available.

Can we please get past that now?

DouseClewsVirtu 55M
1 post
11/7/2005 4:38 pm

I don't qualify for your consideration, so I can speak as a totally disinterested party. What so many don't understand, especially women, but men as well, is that one of the underlying principles of human fairness is that rights and priviliges should be roughly commensurate with obligations and responsibilities.

What makes men nervous, and rightly so, whether they can articulate it or not, is their fear that in your situation they could have significant responsibilities down the road with no rights. [As with womens' right to choose. Fine, but then the man may be liable for child support years later, while he has no rights whatsoever, whether it's the decision to abort or later childcare decisions.]

In your case is the fear they would have no parental rights, but be hit with legal child care demands, etc. So your available LEGAL AGREEMENT is an excellent idea. Kudos to you, assuming it's well drafted.


RottenApple70 47M

11/10/2005 5:03 pm

Well you've certainly come a long way with this. I'm curious to see how close you've come to actually sealing this deal.

RottenApple70 47M

11/18/2005 1:52 pm

That's what I thought, pretty much nowhere, right?

Plano69 54M

12/25/2005 4:35 am

Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas!
(Have folks living in Richmond... )...
Stay warm!

brianb123 50M
1 post
12/29/2005 9:06 pm

Welcome to the state of Virginia where you have no rights as a man or a father trust me

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