need some advice  

rm_BNJ_4eva 42M/36F
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10/28/2005 10:29 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

need some advice


i'm knew to this lifestyle and need some advice. i'm a very sexual person. love sex, oral, foreplay etc... you name it i like it. i fantasize about threesomes, having sex, being ate, and pleasuring someone else at the same time.
the problem is i love the fantasy, but am worried about the actual thing. i'm a very jealous person and i'm not sure i could handle my hubby with another chick. i know he loves me and it's just sex, but i was always brought up to believe you only have sex with the one you love.
not only that i worry about how this will affect our relationship. will it get brought up and thrown in my face everytime we argue? is it going to end up ruining what we have?
is there a good way to kind of ease into it and get our feet wet before we get really involved?
could someone with experience please tell me your opinion and maybe some advice. thanks

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