why do people here still feel the need to lie  

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1/8/2006 6:14 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

why do people here still feel the need to lie


I for one of the first times in my life am at a lost for words. I just dont get it the thought process behind the whole thing makes my head spin. One of if not the main reasons I joined this site was so that I could avoid all the BullS!*t that goes on in your normal everyday vanilla relationship. Made sense to me because lets be honest most of us are hear for a reason and we all know that this is who we are its acceptes here, this does not mean that a more meaningful relationship cant arise from the encounters you have with people here. And some thing to this effect happened to me I met an amazing person we connected on many levels, and it blossemed, all was great or so I thought. I was thinkin to myself great finally for the first time since college a person who can differentiate between love and sex and this was all out in the open in the begining, I even made this clear when the phrase " I love you" was brought into the picture, because I honestly felt to have heard that from another person especially one I met heree held a lot more weight because you didnt need it to get Laid and were not 16 anymore, So I thought she really did love me. This is where the proverbial anvil is dropped repeatedly on my head. She kept lying or forgitting to mention what or who she was doing, now dont take that the wrong way I didnt care infact I encouraged this I wanted to be a part of some of these, It was all the lying that was driving me nuts, Ijust dont get it Why lie about the stupid little things its not worth it especially when I had already told her I didnt care who she was with on that level I just wanted the truth becase I foolishly thought I had found a woman who could differentiate the ACT OF SEX WITH OTHERS and The LOVE you can still feerl for just one person. Thats how I felt. Ladies and gentelmen my final thought on this is if you are going to tell someone on here that dreaded phrase " I love you" please understand it hold more weight here because its not neseccary to get laid, And yes even Men can still have there heart walked all over is just nice to have a foru

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